My new friend just left, after a couple of hours of cuddling and smootching on the couch. He even watched “Queer as Folk” with me, and laughed at the funny parts.
He is great - really really great! I like him a whole lot, but I have only known him a couple of weeks. We have only kissed, no sex, not even a grope yet. He hasnt met the kids or my friends or family yet - although I know they will like him.
I am crazy about him, he has every quality I ever looked for in a mate. EVERY single one! He seems truly enamored of me, flaws and all. He says things to me that make me feel like the most beautiful woman on earth. AND he seems to mean them. We have loads and loads in common, similar background, values and everything.
Tonight before he left, he made me a rose out of a tissue. (awwwwwwww!!!)
On the way out, he said: “love ya”
I find myself profoundly freaked out.
I know I havent known him very long, but I DO have strong feelings for him already. We clicked right away, and got to know each other really well long before the first kiss. Honestly, I could see myself settled down with him…
This is really early for a “love ya” though isnt it?
I mean, could he really love me already? I keep thinking he cant really be real he is so wonderful - I dont know if I LOVE him yet, but it sure would be easy to do!
I dont know what to think now! He just cant throw out a “love ya” this early on! We havent even had sex yet!!!
(Although the next time he kisses my neck I think I might force myself on him.)
Is it possible for two adults (28 & 31) to be in love so soon?
Am I crazy?