So you’ve just had the whole big awkward “I have feelings for you that are considerably more than friendship but I know you don’t feel the same way and that’s okay, wotthehell, c’est la vie, friendship with you is good anyway” conversation. Is a week (two weeks?) later too soon to say, “Hey, let’s hang out, want to grab coffee?” Or is that too forward? Would it be considerate to give this person more distance than that?
Thus asks the shy maiden lady who has no desire to seem pushy or gauche. Advice?