I really love your eyebrows. They arc so nicely, I almost don’t see your bulbous eyes.
Up until recently in my life, I would respond with something like, “Nice” or something equally less offensive. Why? Because I figured, yeah, this guy is already wagging his dick in my face, but I don’t want to be a bitch and HEY! Maybe this can work.
Yeah, it won’t work. Anyway, so yes, I take partial responsibility. For what it’s worth, now that I’m a full on grown up, I respond with things like, “Are you fucking serious? I don’t want to see your dick. Bye.”
If my boyfriend sends me a picture of his dick, I treat it quite differently than if some strange dude whose last name I don’t know flashes his junk to me. I suspect most of us here are talking about the latter and not the former.
Hell, I have had people from this very board email me pictures of their junk. People I have had but a passing poster acquaintanceship with.
I have seen guys go a step beyond putting their best foot forward and over do the nice guy Mr. polite thing. It shows when it is not the normal behavior.
It never even occurred to me that that was a thing. I am so grateful I’m not out there. I’m sure that kind of thing never even existed way back in the dark ages when I was single (late 80’s-early 90’s).
Although, I am a little disappointed I missed out on the opportunity to send women pictures of my dick.
shut up slag, what do you know?
like that?
thanks btw. Although I again thing everyone should watch those vids. They’ll make you chuckle
A gym rat acquaintance with a friend working for a cell phone company persuaded her to obtain my number. He sent me the dick pic. It was enormous. Huge. Thick as the wrist in the photo. My response after who the hell is this?!? was “That’s really scary, What the hell is wrong with you??” 2 minutes later, same pic again, except he had taken a Sharpie and drawn a smiley face on the head and texted “That better?”
God help me, I laughed my butt off. Never spoke to that creep again, but what a strange and hilarious thing to do with one’s junk.
WTF?! Why the hell can’t I get dates then? I mean really? The only picture of junk I’d be sending is of my basement, and probably not even then.
I guess that’s one thing that I can’t fathom at all, except for hearing about it something like that would never have crossed my mind. I guess us normal, keep our dicks in our pants, type guys are the ones having a hard time.
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Are you saying your dating strategy consists of not sending dick pics? I would call that a good first step.
Being attractive is like being funny. People know it when they see it. But as soon as you point it out to someone, it makes you instantly unfunny / unattractive.
VH1 did that The Pick Up Artist reality show a few years back where some guy who called himself “Mystery” taught a bunch of dorks how to pick up girls in the most discerning of venues - the pick up bar. I’m sure as soon as that show came out, every idiot was out at the bars trying “negs” and all the other stuff he demonstrated. Most of the time they come across as a creepy Times Square street pedler.
Don’t confuse positive feedback with a lack of negative feedback. Most of the time I just straight-up stop responding to (or block) a guy who does this. I don’t say, ew gross why are you doing this please stop. Just in case that’s the kind of reaction he wants, and I don’t want to validate it. Also, the kind of guy who delights in sending dick pics to anything with tits tends to exhibit a childlike delight wrt his own private parts. Perhaps to him, it’s natural to assume a woman is as excited by his penis as he is.
Also, some guys are just fucking stupid.
Yeah, that’s what I’m saying, but I never get past the first couple of dates. Maybe I need to send out dick pics.
Rach, I know that some guys are out to do that, but I promise you that 99% of us are just clueless.
Obviously I’m not asking you to go out of your way to provide feedback or anything, but if the main thing holding you back is that and otherwise you would let the “suitor” know why you’re never going to talk to him again, then deffo feel liberated to do so.
Anyway the other thing is I would assume that the perverted kind will get off more from a non response because he can then imagine you as being totally humiliated or something. A swift emotionless don’t do that again will take much of the wind out of his sails.
Wow, I’m giving internet dating advice. I kind of feel fraudulent
Considering what you’ve divulged of your own living arrangments on this board, you don’t really get to look down on others for theirs. Some of us really do live with our parents to help them out while being gainfully employed.
It’s the same concept though - trying to be more sexually attractive.
Some smokers smell worse than others. A lady got on my train carriage last night and she absolutely reeked of cigarettes.
I can detect the smell on most smokers if they’ve smoked within the last half hour or so but still they don’t stink out an entire train carriage.
I always assumed that was to impress upon their pals that they aren’t gay.
What’s really going on is that both types – your kind and the dick pic kind – are leaving the door open for those of us who are real men but still have a little class to make a killing out there.
But it’s your lucky day, because I’ve got two words for you: ball pics.
You know, I can’t even tell you how much worse that would be than a plain old dick shot. More than two times as bad, despite there only being twice as many items feature.
It’s weird; I get that a lot.
nm stupid