My philosophy: “He’ll get what’s due to him when somebody reports his cheating ass.”
It’s like the old joke about the guy in dire straits who refuses the offers of rescue from balloon, helicopter, etc., saying, “God will save me,” and then when he dies, God says, “I sent you a balloon, helicopter, etc.”
The fact that you know about it obligates you to be the honorable reporter.
Sorry about the bullshit, DN. Not all of us with testicles are such utter worthless pond slime.
I never made to Va, the only decent thing he did, he dropped me off at my parents house, under the guise of looking for housing there, and then called me to tell me he wanted a divorce.
Deadly… I’d report him. he can get kicked out for cheating. is she a subordinate? good luck toyou and I hope he gets what he deserves… I can’t help but wonder if the other woman knew he was married and what he was doing. ooooo hope all you wished for him happens… what scum.
How can it be remote, when it’s the center of the universe? It’s everything else that’s “from away”. 
The Rhode Island thing was apparently too much of a local in-joke. Sorry. Just trying to make you smile. I figured you could use one.
Thanks Davebear- Maine was very pretty but I never want to go back, maybe I should try Rhode Island instead 
SHe knew that he was married.
I’m still waiting for it to go go around and take his penis.
Had I been in your place ( and believe me I have been in a worst one in the past ) I would have NEVER had that curious feeling of Schaden freud ( the one you are having now)
Ok color me stupid- but whats schadenfreud?
I forget the exact German translation (I’m sure someone will be here soon with it) but it refers to joy at someone else’s misfortune, usually with the implication that the misfortune was deserved. Like finding out that your ex has developed testicular cancer.
Oh, I dunno. I might definitely have had that feeling of schadenfreud.
For instance, when my former-best-friend-turned-husband’s-new-woman had to have her wisdom teeth out, and they broke her pretty little jaw doing it. Did she deserve it? No, what she really deserved was to be put out on the street with two small children by a man she trusted and loved with all her heart. But you take what you can get, karma-wise.
Some day, after a few years of healing, Deadly might be able to be more charitable, but her reaction right now is perfectly understandable.
[sub]Of course, I haven’t had my wisdom teeth out yet, so no doubt karma will be waiting for me when I do.[/sub]
What a total asshole. I hope his balls fall off, get reattached, then fall off again.
You deserve better then this shitheel.
Wow. That poor kid’s gonna be messed up, with parents like that.
As for the…well… He’s not a man, is he? Okay… As for the sniveling wormshit of an ex-husband, I suspect that he will get his. Not because of karma, but because it seems that he’s stupid.
Why do I say this?
He decided to screw around with, then wed, a woman who would screw around with a married man.
He decided to screw around with a woman who was/is a co-worker, possibly costing him his job.
He decided to screw around on his wife, who could, potentially, make his life miserable in a divorce proceeding.
He decided to make a baby with this woman, exposing him to possible child support payments at a later date (if, as I expect, the marriage doesn’t, ah…work out).
So yeah, I have a sneaking suspicion that he’s gonna wind up an unhappy guy. Boo hoo.