What right or invitation did you have to take over my mother’s house and all her personal belonings when my mother was in a tragic car accident 2 months ago? You wouldn’t let me in my own mother’s house when she was in ICU for 32 days, nor would you ‘allow’ my aunt and cousin to stay at my mother’s house when they came out from South Dakota for the funeral. They had to spend money they couldn’t afford on a motel room.
You sanctimonious Bitch. Jesus loves you, but like the bumper sticker says: “Everyone else thinks you’re an asshole!” And include me, my aunt and my cousin in that assesment. You dear; may be loved to death by the Baby Jesus, but by your actions since my mother’s death last month, you are a major league asshole to me. Read that? “Jesus thinks you’re an asshole too!”
You won’t even speak to me, you have your husband Sandy do it for you. I’m tired of your passive/aggresisve non-power-trip, and I just want to say this: You are a big poopy-headed bitch.
Keep your hands off my mother’s stuff, don’t you dare touch her jewlery or the antique things that my Grandmother left to me, you cunt.
My attorney will be talking to your attorney, pronto.
When your God made assholes, he was looking at your schematics. The Baby Jesus concurs.
Definitely time to involve attorneys. And this Sandy person? Is he your brother? If so, you might want to smack him in the head and ask him what the fuck he thinks he’s doing letting his wife run all over his mother’s house and grave.
THese are the things that family breakups are made of. I’ve known several people who lost a loved one and then sat around “jockeying for position”, to get what was once owned by the deceased. It’s pretty sick, IMO, and you’d do best to nip this in the bud before it becomes a daytime-TV plot.
I’m sorry for your loss and the mess these people are making of it.
Your mother, whom I sorry to hear passed away, was remarried and this BITCH is the daughter of her current husband? Is he still around?
I’d watch E-Bay for your mothers possessions being sold.
Get an attorney NOW! Don’t just think about it or make idle threats about it…DO IT! Even a cease and desist letter on the firm’s letterhead works wonders. Even the “nicest” people show their true colors when there is an inheritance at stake. Whether it’s a $10 teacup or $1.8 million, they get all greedy and grabby. It’s creepy and disgusting. Too many people just “let it go” because they want to be liked or keep peace in the family.
I have a question: was your step sister this much of a b*tch before your mom’s accident, or has it suddenly surfaced?
Where is your step-father? Do you have any other siblings? How long has she been a step-sibling? How was your relationship before this? Is this person in decent financial way or perpetually broke?
On the flip side, I am profoundly sorry to hear of your mothers accident and suffering. She is at peace now, take comfort where you can. Too suffer through the horrors of that is enough. To surface from the bleakness that is a sudden loss to face a phsycotic greedy human is intolerable and unspeakable.
Death brings out the loonies and true personalities in people.
I am always amazed by the behavior of surviving relatives after a death.
I’ve seen turkey vultures act with more decorum over road kill.
My favorite story concerned my ex-boss, M ., a thoroughly decent lady.
When her childhood friend was diagnosed with bone cancer, M spent the entire summer commuting between DC and Austin, just to ensure her friend died with a modicum of dignity and comfort.
M did everything she could for this woman, including finding a good hospice and then rearranging her very busy schedule to fly out every Monday and stay over until Thursday evening to guarantee she would have someone by her side during the week, when other people were busy with their jobs.
Susan was quite wealthy and when she died, she left everything to M.
The relatives flipped out totally.
Went ballistic.
Two aunts (who had visited Susan a total of twice during the entire period) were in her house within hours of her death, dividing the furniture.
An uncle got so upset that he was hospitalized with a skin condition.
My boss’ mother was excoriated by another relative although they had been close for over years.
Mind you, none of these people actually needed the money-they were all very well-to-do.
It was pure greed in action.
I’m sorry that the death of your mother is being compounded by the horrible behavior of your stepsister, ** truthbot**.
First , Truthbot I’m sorry for the loss of your mother. Second, my purpose is not to attack Truthbot but to examine the situation as impartially as possible.
Folks consider this. You’re only getting Truthbot’s side of the story. I know of situations where step-children have worked, supported and cared for their step parents and become more involved than the birth children. Momma or daddy dies and then the “heirs” show up and try to loot the place.
Not at all implying this is the case but I also recognize the possibility that evil step sister may have legitimate reasons for her actions. In any case, lawyers will determine who gets what.
You want I should pay ‘em a visit? Mebbe help ‘em see da light? Mebbe me an’ a coupla my ‘associates’ could convince dem dat mebbe dey’re disrespectin’ a persn’l friend?