OK, at the risk of sounding like a dirty, dirty Swiddle, here it is: I got my tongue pierced a while ago, partly because I was DONE WITH MEN at that time (I’m sorry, the capitals were nessisary) and figured that the one-month-no-dirty-business rule wouldn’t be a problem.
A few months later, I’ve reconnected with an old fling, and have realised that I have no idea what I’m doing with this thing in my mouth. A life time fag-hag, I prided myself on my abilities, ( ) and have received rave reviews in the past. But with the tongue ring, I feel instead of concentrating on the…er…job at hand, I’m worried about the ring. I know the “tooth factor” is a bad thing, I worry that the stud is just like a tooth in the middle of my tongue. And yes, I could just go ahead and ask my partner what he likes, but I feel the element of surprise is a good thing.
The Google search I attempted to run did nothing but make me feel like an even dirtier Swiddle. I know somewhere in the Teeming Millions, there must be SOMEONE with firsthand advise on this issue.
And no, this thread is not a desperate attempt to increase my popularity.
Your OP is just a bit murky. The mention of the element of surprise makes it sound as if you’re talking about an anticipated situation rather than something that’s already come up ( :smack: ). If you’re truly worried about it to the point of distraction, why not approach the initial encounter au naturelle? You already know that’ll work, and the tongue ring is removable, isn’t it?
Ditto … OTOH, I have my tongue pierced and have been told that it enhances cunnilingus in the same way it is supposed to enhance fellatio. But maybe it’s just me.
Actually, in my discussions with other guys, they have told me that tongue studs on females who go down on them are not all they’re cracked up to be. So there’s my 2¢ on the issue.
I’ve never conducted a before/after study with men I fellated before getting the piercing, so I don’t know from personal experience.
On the other hand, I have asked the question of male friends who’ve been pleasured by women with tongue piercings. Their consensus was that it was interesting & much fun, but didn’t get them to orgasm anymore quickly or intensely than would a piercing-less woman who has good technique.
Hmmm…I wonder if a piercing PLUS good technique doubles the fun…? I should do a study…
I’ve had my tongue pierced for about two years now, and have been with the same guy for seven. He was vehemently opposed to the ring at first but now likes it a lot. After the first few times, you sort of forget it’s there. Don’t worry about scratching, etc. (unless the ring has a burr on it or something, in which case it would be scratching your mouth up as well). Unlike your teeth, it’s rounded, and many times he won’t even feel it. You have to concentrate on it to make it a factor during oral sex, which I think kind of diminishes the rest of the fun. BTW, don’t waste your monry on those little soft rubber tongue-ring covers as they are perfectly useless.
I will say that it’s easier to “use” on girls - but you’ll either have to take my word for it or try it yourself.
1.) The situation has already come up, so to speak. I had also slept with this fellow pre-tongue ring. I guess I could just ask him, but kinda feel like that’s like the magician telling you how he does the trick.
2.) Mucus membranes are VERY fast healing. If I removed it, the hole would be partially healed within three hours.
I think it might be more psychological than anything else. A kind of placebo effect, if you will. My once girlfriend of over two years got her tounge pierced during the course of the relationship and I noticed no difference in the “quality” of oral sex. Of course I lied about it afterwards, though.
I’m curious about this “element of surprise” thing…are you saying that he doesn’t/won’t know about your tongue piercing? Are you planning on going down on him without any sort of leadup, like kissing? A french kiss would certainly give away the presence of the tongue ring.
The placement of the piercing through the tongue can also affect how usefull and pleasing the piercing is during oral sex.
In regards to heterosexual partners males are generally supposed to get the piercing placed closer to the tip of the tongue, while women should get the piercing set further back on the tongue.
The reason behind the closer placemet to the tip of the tongue for males is that it is better to flick or rub the clitoris with the tip of the tongue (where its pierced) rather than having to poke your tongue all the way out to stimulate the clitoris with the tongue stud. I can vouch in saying that the latter is NOT the greatest method and can lead to gagging and choking (try keeping your mouth open and your tongue sticking out for a while and see if it happens) which probably isnt what the receiving person would like to hear when your head is between her legs.
Tongue stud placement for females is much better suited further back on the tongue. This is because a during oral sex the tongue ‘usually’ stays inside the mouth for the most part where the stud can stimulate the upper shaft, frenulum (sp) and head of the penis. Obviously there is going to be some licking with the tongue out of the mouth, but I am yet to meet a man who can orgasm just by licking his penis, some sucking action is needed. :o
Just a quick note - I have noticed no difference or added stimultion between single tongue piercings and multiple tongue piercings while receiving oral sex. My current g/f has 3 piercings through her tongue, yet it feels very similar to if she had only 1.
(Did anyone notice the significance of the smiley faces and their location in the post???)
My gf has a piercing and i have to say that the sensation, whilst not unpleasant, really doesn’t add a lot to the whole experience.
Oh and your quote: “2.) Mucus membranes are VERY fast healing. If I removed it, the hole would be partially healed within three hours.” is not true. My gf takes hers out for a couple of weeks every so often and it always goes back in again easily…
No, he knows. He’s also my friend, and three days after I had it done, I oh-so-subtly stuck my newly pierced tongue at him. By “element of surprise” I mean that I’d rather surprise him in the moment, so to speak, rather than whip out a notebook ahead of time and start taking notes on what works and doesn’t.
Ah, gotcha. Well, I find that the best way to figure out what works and what doesn’t is to just try stuff and see how he reacts. Play around, have fun with it. Heck, he might not even be able to tell you exactly what works and what doesn’t–I know I couldn’t describe what my fella is doing when he does something real good, I just tell him, whatever it was made me jump, keep doing that!
No, he knows. He’s also my friend, and three days after I had it done, I oh-so-subtly stuck my newly pierced tongue at him. By “element of surprise” I mean that I’d rather surprise him in the moment, so to speak, rather than whip out a notebook ahead of time and start taking notes on what works and doesn’t.
This thread has been very helpful. I believe I’ve discovered a new urban legend. Tongue piercings and fellatio. Huh.
) and have received rave reviews in the past. But with the tongue ring, I feel instead of concentrating on the…er…job at hand, I’m worried about the ring. I know the “tooth factor” is a bad thing, I worry that the stud is just like a tooth in the middle of my tongue. And yes, I could just go ahead and ask my partner what he likes, but I feel the element of surprise is a good thing.
