I recently saw an add for “extended pleasure condoms”, which until now I had no idea even existed. My question is, how do these things work? I’m assuming there is some kind of deadener in the tip to minimize sensation. Also, how extreme is the deadener? Does one who uses these condoms lose all sensation in the area touching the deadener, or is it a very mild substance. And another thing, is the person using the condom unable to reach orgasm? Or is it just more difficult. Thanks.
Are there really such super-virile men out there that regular condoms don’t minimize the sensation enough?
If minimizing the sensation is the objective then I would say keeping your penis inside your pants would be the best course of action. That would really extend the pleasure.
It might chafe her, though. Especially when I’m wearing jeans.
Oh, and in response to the actual GQ, a lot of those “erection creams” have some kind of menthol-like substance that numbs the winkie. I’d imagine that Trojan might add something like that to the lube.
It sucks, by the way. Don’t ever, ever, use it for session #2 of the evening. The burning… sweet Jesus, the burning…
Okay, in response to the OP:
Yes, there is some kind of deadener added to minimize sensation; I’m not sure what it is but it leaves you with a kind of tingly feeling so it might well be a menthol-like substance as black455 mentioned. Yes, it does work and can extend the period of time before ejaculation considerably. Yes, sometimes it can make it well nigh impossible to reach orgasm.
YMMV.
Another speaker from experience. Yes, they do numb the equipment, with some sort of extremely mild anesthetic or numbing agent.
Some points of advice, should you consider using them:
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If you are contemplating coitus after a night of drinking, and find that like many men you can naturally go a bit longer after drinking, I recommend you do NOT use these particular condoms.
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Likewise, if you’re contemplating coitus a second time after using one of these particular condoms during the first instance, I would once again recommend you do NOT use an Extended Pleasure condom.
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Should you find yourself in the unfortunate situation of having ignored my advice from BOTH points 1 and 2, try to lie back and remain calm. You’re not going to get your cookies that night, but I can just about guarantee your partner is going to get orbital. Might even be worth breakfast the next morning, so at least you’ll have that to look forward to. Lord knows breakfast will come before you do.
Ok, I’m going to admit to a highly personal problem I had a couple months ago, premature ejaculation.
I hadn’t dated anyone for almost 4 years, I’m 30 years old now. I met a hot Japanese girl at work (one of my sexual fantisies come true!) and we started dating, had sex. Or at least I tried to…it was akward because I came so fast. Now I never really had problems with this before, so I was at a complete loss as to what I should do. In the end it turned out I was just really badly out of practice, that much time without will do that to you. But at the moment I was kind of worried. So I went out and got a flavor of Durex condoms that have some kind of numbing coating, they were the worst thing ever. Not only does it kill feeling for you making it difficult to keep an erection, I’m pretty sure it numbs her too causing the same problem on her end. I threw those right out and went back to regular old condoms, and everything worked out. Just needed to get some practice to get back in the groove!
Mucho thanks, I needed a good laugh this morning!
JOhn.
They would work fine, except for one small oversight on Trojan’s part. When you coat the inside of a condom with a thick layer of lidocane, then roll it up IT WILL ALSO GET ON THE OUTSIDE OF THE CONDOM. This causes “Extended Pleasure” only untill everyone’s naughty bits are completly lacking in any feeling what so ever. Then all you are left with is chaffing, frustration and numb genitals. I give them 2 cocks down!
TMI TMI TMI!!
I had that problem before for the same reason you mention but by far the other end of the spectum is worse. I hadn’t been with someone in forever and when the chance came around with a beautiful, sexy women I was dating lil’ Fyre got a bad case of nerves and refused to stand up and say “Hi”. Talking with him didn’t help, pleading didn’t help, threats with a weed whacker didn’t help. Only time and the understanding of the women did.