These two sentences are are incongruous. If you truly wish to put it behind you, just let it go and quit posting about it. You probably just had a hemmroid (sp?) flare up.
I think you really should give up on expecting useful feedback on a impossibly vague set of recollections, which could easily be entirely made up just to get attention (not saying that that’s the case, just that there is no way to know). Several posters have given you useful, actionable information (see a freakin’ doctor, for fuck’s sake), which you seem to be finding all sorts of excuses not to act on. Act on it, or not; it’s entirely your problem.
This. Why on earth are you putting whether or not you were victimized up to a popular vote?
I would think you’d had quite enough of that sort of thing.
Are you umkay?
What I mean guys is maybe I am too paranoid? I have a little history of being paranoid. I guess my thinking is ruled by paranoid thoughts sometimes.
I wanted some outside perspective to whether or not I am being over worried. I have told a few friends and they all say I would have woken up and it didnt happen.
But sometimes I worry about things that I should not. Is anal pain after being drunk alone enough to conclude I was probably raped? Well I would say no except I was sleeping in a dorm room with 4-5 male strangers. So that makes me think it could have happened. But if I was alone in my room I would never even consider it. But maybe I am jumping to conclusions and its just a hemorroid flareup or something?
Why is that important?
If the doctor checks for any of the possible consequences and finds that nothing is wrong, why does it matter that you know?
Sorry for the double post. I didn’t preview before I posted.
You’re asking the wrong people. It’s difficult for strangers who only know some cryptic bits of the story that you’re telling them to help you.
If you’ve already asked your friends and don’t want to take their advice, why do you think that you’d take the advice of anyone else, especially people who know you less well and don’t know the circumstances?
Yes, you are being overly worried.
No, you are not being overly worried.
Pick the one that gives you the most comfort.
And that’s it for me, folks; y’all feel free to keep playing if you want.
I don’t believe that you were raped but I do believe that you have some sort of mystery pain back there and I think that you should see a doctor soonest.
A couple of years ago my wife woke up one morning with very severe pains not far from the back end. They subsided after a few days and then different pains appeared after a few weeks. Fast forward a few more weeks and she was in the hospital for about four months with about 40 days of chemo.
I’m not saying that you have cancer or anything else but if you have weird and mysterious pains for no apparent reason you might want to get this checked out.
Anniversary coming up!!
I know someone who went to prison for anal rape. But so far all he’s managed to score is a blowjob off the wing governor.
Nobody raped you. See a doctor about your persistent anal pain. Seriously, you could die if you don’t.
ETA: pretending this is for real.
Did you wake up with a condom hanging out your ass and a five dollar bill pressed in your hand?
If not then go and see a proctologist about your pain.
Go to the doctor.
115 posts later and he’s still not seen a doctor? Huh.
I’ve looked at other threads you’ve started. Yes, I think you are too paranoid. From your postings, you lean towards paranoia and hypochondria.
When you ask for opinions about things, when the answers you get don’t jibe with your own paranoid suspicions, you ignore the answers that don’t agree with you and keep on asking. And that’s instead of taking the actions which could settle the issue in the first place.
In this situation, instead of posting here looking for people to agree with your fears, you could have gone to a doctor the next day or whenever the symptoms appeared and had an exam which could have cleared it up. But no, you dither around.
You asked for advice here a couple of days ago but didn’t take it even though everyone pretty much said to do the same thing. You’re still asking the same goddamn questions now, but also wanting us to account for your lack of action. This is going nowhere.
It’s time for you to sober up, man up and reach down into some unused recess and show a little frikkin’ maturity and sense. Quit your damn whining, use some common sense and start making some intelligent choices.
objection - assumes facts not in evidence.
Have you read some of this guys threads though? He’s got some kind of problem.
Seriously, dude – GO TO THE DOCTOR AND FIND OUT WHY YOUR ASSHOLE HURTS. Jesus. Otherwise, quit bitching.