This debate is ridiculous (4.00 / 2)
I still don’t get people who say… “We’ll give them EVERYTHING … all the benefits… but we want to call it a different word. We will stamp and scream and pout over this semantic turn of phrase”
A different @$^&ing word! All this, so people don’t have to use the same word!
Seriously, somewhere, there is an advanced alien civilization laughing at our pettiness.
I’m straight, and I’m a Christian AND I live in Massachusetts, and I think this is all ridiculous. Any Christian who thinks that allowing gay civil marriage is somehow a threat to core Christian values should do some serious rethinking about what they think the priorities of the faith are, and how flimsy they seem to think the core values of Christianity are.
Last time I checked, the core values of Christianity were faith, hope, and love… and the greatest of these is LOVE… (oh how many have forgotten!) NOT cherry-picked comments from the Old Testament.
Besides, the views of Christianity are about as relevant to the question of civil marriage as the views of ANY religion. I.E. it’s not relevant. I’d be singing a different tune if this had anything to do with religious marriage, but it doesn’t.
But what IS religiously relevant is how this issue has made Christians act. The reaction of the Christian community in general to what amounts to the legal meaning of a WORD is embarrasing. Personally, I’m getting tired of the “me-first because I’m saved”, individualistic, self-righteous, conservative Christianity that has taken over the faith. This makes Christianity look petty, unattractive, and small.
*And now I will show you the most excellent way.
If I speak in tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have a gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails…
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13*
The second, IMHO, most important passage in the Bible… Yet you’d never guess it by the behavior of many Christians nowadays. How far public mainstream Christianity seems to have fallen from this message. Christians have much more important things to do than howl and scream over a meaningless battle over which word should apply to a set of legal rights.
(OK, thank you for letting me rant… I’m just tired of the right hijacking the language of faith for political, and often hateful, purposes)
by emjaycue on Thu Feb 12th, 2004 at 23:51:46 GMT