Went on first real date in a year.

Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
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Went out on a date last night with a friend. Had lots of fun drinking, walking, and getting lost in our neighbourhood and in conversation. Felt great. She said so as well. The end though? I asked her if she was looking for someone yet (cause a year ago she wasn’t)…and she said no. So we hugged and said goodnight.

I feel some pain cause I haven’t had so much fun on a date in a long time and I’ve liked her for awhile. But it’s a two way street. Just trying to get it out of my system.

Postive notes:

At least I know I can still be hopeful and excited for someone.

Taking the day to help myself feel better. I’m too sensitive.

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Glad you had a nice date, at least!

3

Not to be a wet blanket, but you had a nice date. She had dinner with a friend.

4

Sure…good ol’ miscommunications. I should probably start defining my encounters before they happen.

5

Yeah, I know the feeling.

Hey, you had a good time, got out of the house, engaged with the world. There’s a whole lot of worse ways to spend an evening.

6

Exactly, I’m pretty basic these days. I got up, went to work, ate food, didn’t die. No one yelled at me or hurt me physically, at the end of the week I will drink beer. What else could a person hope for?

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Not at all. You went on a date. You were straight forward with her as she was with you. No miscommunication at all as far as I can tell. You two were emotionally in different places, and you found it out now before you got too emotionally attached. You handled everything the best way possible.

Kudos to you for at least getting out there and trying.

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Thanks, that’s all I really wanted to hear. Encouragement helps me, alot in my life has calmed down. I think have room again for dating and perhaps developing something.