The 1983 Czechoslovak film “Slunce, seno a jahody” (Sun, Hay and Strawberries). Depicting a Czech village in the declining days of Communism, it includes a character, played by the late Helena Růžičková, who is a mother who is a domestic bully and is generally an unpleasant character in the village. She acts abusively especially toward her children, and her young son bears the brunt of it.
So for example, there is a scene where the boy asks his mother an honest question: “Mom, what is a slut?” The mother gives him a hard slap across the face and yells at him.
In another scene, the boy has to hold a rabbit while the mother skins it (in the Czech Republic, eating rabbit is common, and raising your own in hutches is also common among country folk). She grumbles at him: “Hold it properly, or I’ll whack you one!” Later, the boy complains that they’re constantly having rabbit for dinner, and the mother yells at him: “Don’t you read the newspaper? There are starving children in Africa!” And there’s a lot more of this throughout the film.
In the sequels, there’s more of this. In one scene, the family gets a personal computer. The boy says: “We have this at school. We play on it.” The mother threatens him: “Playing with such a rare device? Don’t you dare, or I’ll whack you one!” In another scene, she gives a hard slap to her young adult daughter when they have a disagreement over the latter’s boyfriend.
And the mother doing the whacking is played by an actress who was an enormous lummox of a woman. See here.
The thing is, Czechs find these scenes hilarious. Maybe it’s because they can relate to them. Things are changing, but during Communism and long after, Czech people tended to be quite authoritarian when raising children and were not averse to sometimes harsh corporal punishment. In general, the trope of a “hilariously abusive childhood” is fairly common in older Czech / Czechoslovak films. But if at least it was played with a subtext of clear criticism. Here it appears to be played purely for laughs, without any intelligent underlying point, and people, even young people, often laugh hard at it. As if whacking around your kid were something inherently funny. As someone who experienced similar things in my family, I find it offensive that people find such humor in this. Child abuse is no laughing matter. I would compare laughing at these scenes with laughing at pictures of the starving children in Africa mentioned above.
So this series of films, which makes humor out of bullying toward a weaker dependent person, and which paradoxically causes such general reactions of laughter, is highly offensive to me, and I hate it with a rabid vengeance.