I would think it would be more like peach pie.
Yeah, but that kind of sex is still better than NO sex.
Jon
Jo
Exhausting and exhilirating. Comfortable and yet cautious. Gentle and rough.
But try not to imagine what you look like while doing it, because you’ll never stop giggling.
Having sex with a woman as opposed to just yourself … they both feel pretty much the same, except that when you do it with a woman, sooner or later you will have to take out the garbage.
Hey, no ones stopping you!
I, for one, am interested in hearing about the social differences and the varying behavior of nice woman on woman fornication. The research is invaluable and…
Oh, who am I kidding…
How’s it different:D
And Edwardina mentions Peach which suggests she’s from Georgia.
But… the first time it’s more like Cherry Pie.
To me sex is more like you’re checking the dipstick on a beautiful Ferrarri while doing 100 mph through a field of flowers.
Woohoo.
"Peach which suggests she’s from Georgia.
But… the first time it’s more like Cherry Pie."
What happens if you hit a pit?
A thousand pardons, TVeblen.
Meatros ,
I have had a couple of occasions that I found myself in bed with a man, so I can even give a compare/contrast.
Hetero-- Not bad, very good for an exercise routine, I lost 5 lbs while I was being decently satisfied. However, I’m the kind of girl that loves cuddling after.
Lesbian-- Very emotional, lots of foreplay, and afterplay and plenty of cuddling to make me happy. One might find a downside to it if you are on a different cycle than your partner but <TMI> that has never stopped me.
Sex without love is erotic, lacks intensity, but its a good warm and tingly feeling all over. Sex with love is better than anything on earth, even chocolate ice cream… and sex while in love with chocolate ice cream… well you might as well be in heaven.
…run around the room several times, screaming while trying to comfort your scalded genitals, gingerly examine blisters, deliberate in complete mental anguish for several days on whether to overcome embarrassment and seek medical attention, change dressing twice daily when infection starts to get serious…
Seriously; telling someone to insert their genitals into a microwave- heated melon is not terribly good advice.
You’re wrong. On about 23,000 different levels, you are so painfully wrong. I am sorry to say, but no sex is usually a hell of a lot better for the mind than spiteful cruel manipulative power-play sex.
A hell of a lot better.
:mad:
Cartooniverse
Miss Manners said the exact same thing, just last week.
Then again, to answer the O.P.
It makes you feel sublimely human. It makes you humbled before the emotional and physical connection that you have created with someone else. It makes you hyperaware of every sense in your body. You can taste more, feel more, hear your pulse in your veins, smell life, see clarity and brilliance in the eyes of your lover.
You can be safe and happy and silly and serious and coy and amused and relaxed. You can shed the outer layers and be You. It feels like a warm rush of otherworldly energy.
It cannot be replaced by money, drugs, toys, anything. You will know it, one day.
You’re a man of the world, squire. You’ve…done it. You’ve ah, slept…with a lady. What’s it like?
Wow!, so thats what good sex is like. Sadly I have yet to expirience good sex.
:dubious:
Heh. I’ve known some men who could be compared to a hypodermic needle, but I digress…
Ooooh, I smell a new sig!
Cartooniverse is so right. Sex while in love = all the unquantifiable things people here have tried to say. Sex for sex’s sake w/ a person you aren’t in love with, IMHO, isn’t worth it.
Ahh c’mon Rhum, you sure? You don’t have to be in love with someone to enjoy sex with them, speaking for myself. Sex is NOT worth it if it’s just bad sex. There is a difference I think. YYMV
physically: it’s having both bodies touching, skin-to-skin contact, and feeling that closeness, and intimacy, and having your penis in a special place that you just can’t belived feels so good, and having an powerful urge to start pumping your hips andpushing as hard as you can into that warm spot, thying to get deeper and closer and become one with this person you care deeply about for a least a profound moment in which you can’t tell where she stops and you start and your nerves are tingliing and you feel that you can feel her nerves tingling and stimulating and holding on to you and wanting you to move back and forth to increase that great feeling in your genitals and make things even more hot, frantic, urgent, and uncontrollable. Then you push really hard and hold on and feel your entire body shake and quake and shiver and your toes curl up and your back starts aching and you feel the shivers up and down your back and legs and neck and ears and scalp. Then you feel so totallly relaxed and content and at one that you don’t want to move or for anything to happen for moments on end while you return to reality and leave your altered state and numbly move off to begin to comprehend just how powerful that was and all the feelings that were being shared at purely physical, deeply intimate and personal levels and opening you up more closely than you’ve ever been to anotherh human being.
Emotionally: it’s the same thing.
Spiritually: it can be quite similar
Intellectually: you’d better not be thinking about what you have to do at work tomorrow or what habits you don’t like about this girl or how to finish that paper/project you’ve been puzzling over, or you miss out on everything that I’ve just explained and you probably get hit by your girlfriend/wife.
got it?
Right. Got it. Thanks for clearing that up, Pab!