Fuck you person who emailed my husband. I don’t know who you are but you are a bitch. I would post your email address so people could load you up with spam but now that I’ve calm down slightly I’m going to just assume you are misguided and thinking you are doing the right thing. You still are off your rocker but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you are misguided.
However, how dare you read something I wrote in my journal about a DREAM I had and take it upon yourself to look up Sauron’s email address and send it to him implying he might need to talk to me.
It was a DREAM…I can’t control what I dream. I posted about it in my journal along with several other things.
Just because I posted a short statment about a DREAM I had about some cute guy I met it does not mean I’m fucking some firefighter on the side behind my husband’s back. And even IF I was then IT’S NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS nor is it your place to notify my husband.
My husband already knows about my weekend. We have discussed it. We have joked about it off and on since I got home from my weekend out of town.
I particularly like my husband’s response to your pathetic attempt to stir up shit…
“If you can explain to me how what my wife writes in her LiveJournal is any of your business, I’ll be happy to listen to you. Until then, get lost.”
My husband ROCKS. And you are a sad, sad bitter woman who needs to get a life. He was much classier in his response to you than I would have been.
I don’t understand the need some people seem to have to butt in other people’s lives.
There’s a reason I don’t have a LiveJournal. Nearly every single one of those reasons has been addressed in the OP. Aries28, why do *you * have a LiveJournal?
I just got one probably 6 months ago or so. I have met a few Chicago Dopers and hung out with them and it is easier to chat on LJ than on the SD due to its size.
It is a really boring journal I think. But someone I don’t know read an entry that was about an odd dream I had then decided to figure out who my husband was, find his email address and email him my entry…implying they thought he should know.
Should know what? I had a DREAM?
Rest assured my journal will be friends only from now on.
I normally make the majority of my entries friends only. I just didn’t check the box on this one because it was of nothing important. I have no idea who this person is. I don’t recognize the email address. I really doubt it is someone on my friends list. At least I really hope so.
I’ve been hearing things like this about LJ for a while now. One new friend I made when I got mine, had to get a completely new journal, because someone was archiving her entries on Kazaa, along with a mapquest map with directions to her house!
If I wasn’t paranoid enough already… sheesh. Anything I write remotely personal gets a “friends only” tag now.
That sucks Aries28. Do you know the person who did it? Alas, the same sort of thing happened to me in that someone tried to find out who I was so I deleted the entry and haven’t posted in ages. Maybe the friends only, especiually now be careful as there might be people from here who now want to look at your LJ.
If dreams were equated with real life many of us would have been locked up a ling time ago
I ranted recently about people spying on their SO’s internet activity, but strangers spying on someone else’s activity in the behalf of a spouse who didn’t ask anything is totally off base.
I wonder what some people are thinking :rolleyes: (except if it was a deliberate malevotent action, intended to cause trouble, in which case at least there would be a motive).
Sorry, I can’t get behind this rant. Was this person out of line? Yes. Is it your own fault? Yes.
This is like someone who keeps a diary, then gets mad at someone who reads it when she has left it open on the kitchen table. Yes, a diary is personal and private, but you also have a responsibility to keep it private if you don’t want the public responding to it.
Heh. I’d pay alot to see Skip Magic’s reply to that.
Featherlou, it’s possible to respond to a person’s LJ without taking it upon yourself to email the LJ owner’s husband and insinuating a dream is reality.
I think it must be somebody who either posts here or lurks here. Otherwise, I doubt they’d know that Aries28 and I are married, or how to contact me.
I also do not know which gender the person is, since all I have to go on is an e-mail address that doesn’t seem to correspond with any usernames I’m familiar with here.
Once upon a time a bird flew in through an open window into a man’s home while he was watching TV and smoking a doob. While the man watched from his Bean Bag Chair, the bird flew around in a panick for several minutes, trying to escape, before finally crashing into a closed window, breaking it’s neck, and dying. The man felt bad for the bird, because it didn’t know any better.
Discussion Questions:
Was the birds death the man’s fault, or was it the bird’s fault?
Should the man have gotten up from his Bean Bag Chair to help the bird?
Should pot be illegal, really?
Should the man feel bad for the bird, just because it didn’t know any better?
Bonus:
Suggest a way the man might have handled the situation differently if he was drinking a beer instead of smoking a doob.
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If I didn’t want total strangers taking an interest in my private business I wouldn’t be displaying it on the internet for total strangers to read.