During intimacy, have you ever had your partner make a request that shocked you, baffled you, or caused you to think that they were weird? What did they request??
Did you opt out, or did you go along with it?
Thanks.
During intimacy, have you ever had your partner make a request that shocked you, baffled you, or caused you to think that they were weird? What did they request??
Did you opt out, or did you go along with it?
Thanks.
I once went out with a guy who on our first date asked me to go to a BDSM potluck with him…does that count?
I guess I have never had anyone request anything weird during sex though.
One guy wanted me to hit him with a board. I declined- that’s just not my bag, baby.
One guy asked for a “hummer” which in his mind meant that I would put his balls in my mouth, and actually hum. Like, a tune. I politely declined, if only because I would feel absurd.
I had another partner forceably spank me, which is actually sort of funny to think about, but it freaked me out so much I actually supressed the memory. Fast forward about 2 years when I was with a new partner and he said something or did something that totally make me remember the incident - it was really odd.
#1:
Wear her late father’s clothes.
Ewww ewwww ewww ewww ewww.
During sex? There are not enough ewwwwwwwwws and in the galaxy for that.
I guess I can’t parse your title of this thread with what your asked.
“What is the most bizarre” vs. “Have you ever had your partner make a request that…”
Which one do you want us to answer?
I just admited on this board ,not too long ago, that one lady friend of mine wanted me to put on a dress. I obliged. I couldn’t for the life of me keep a straight face tho".
On the flip side; I once asked this muslim girl I was dating to put on that hood thingy they wear as she gave me a BJ. She did and now I’m pretty sure I’m going to the 9th circle of Hell.
Naked. With the light on.
To me light off is wierd
What, if I may ask, is a BDSM potluck? I’ve got the mental image of someone showing up at the door in a leather dominatrix outfit carrying a whip and a green bean casserole.
I’m really on the other side of the coin here. All I’ll say is that I’m very lucky to have an adventurous boyfriend, b/c I keep coming up with surprising new things to do.
And pbbth, do you think the potluck would have had a moonbounce? Because I totally would have gone if that were the case!
“No, Dammit!!! You were to bring Dessert! Now go chain yourself to the sofa and await your punishment…”
After being asked by a previous girlfriend to choke her while she was on top I made my excuses and left. My own house. She was a bit wild for me.
“I made you a grilled cheese sandwich!”
“Feed it to me.”
Well of course we want both now!
It wasn’t during, but hubby has off-handedly suggested that we roleplay a scene out of the French Revolution. I’m thinking it over.
That would never work in our house… it would degenerate into slapstick.
“We are so poor we don’t eeeven haff a language… just a stooopeeed acksent!”
I met a girl at the Rainbow Bar. She asked me if I’d beat her. She took me back to the Hyatt House …
I don’t want to talk about it.
Way back in the day, while at the girls place, I was asked if I would strip naked for her, then perform oral on her (she would only remove her panties), then hold her afterwards, and then get dressed and go home without anything happening to satisfy me in return.
Selfish bastard that I am, I cut right to the chase …and left.