I would tell him that his sexuality is not other people’s business, and that he is a rare commodity in this day and age. I would also commend him for not giving up something that is so precious in a willy-nilly sort of way. If he’s saving himself for his future wife, then that’s very admirable.
This message brought to you by a 22 year old female virgin who has had to resist the advances of several men due to her very strong religious beliefs.
It’s been a couple days. I wonder if the OP will return to grace us with another post on topic?
Hey PSXer: You’ve got several lines of advice here based on different hypotheticals about this hypothetical person’s hypothetical behaviors and hypothetical attitudes. Care to throw us a bone (heh :))and tell us which hypothetical is the correct avenue for us to explore further?
I wouldn’t advice him of anything. If he’s a virgin, I’m sure there’s a reason for it, rather I’d tell him not to ask questions for which he won’t listen to the solutions for anyway. Because that’s what people like that do, listen then do nothing. Waste of time.
The most direct and impartial thing I could say is this: Just because someone is a virgin at age 25 does not mean that person will be a virgin for his entire life. I am personal evidence of this.