There’s a mental type I’m attracted to, and won’t date anyone who doesn’t fit (because we just won’t get along.) That’s introverted, smart, creative, and geeky.
Then there’s eye candy. My eye candy is skinny tall guys, preferably in a suit. (David Bowie as the Thin White Duke is pretty much the epitome). Actually I’ll drool over pretty much anybody in a suit, male or female. Or even just wearing a waistcoat. Yum. Or in pirate garb (the Captain Morgan ads are pretty much porn to me, especially the one where he swims).
Oddly enough, the only two guys I’ve dated long-term have been stocky and one of them was only a couple of inches taller than me.
I don’t like classically handsome guys like George Clooney or that type. They look boring to me.
But the list of guys I’ll swoon over is long and varied.