What do you call this type of behavior?
When my sons father died, his fathers SO acted as though she was being generous by setting aside a few things of his fathers to give to my son. Uh, no, my son was his only child and his fathers things are already his, not hers to give to him.
I didn’t call her on it, should have, because she took everything of value and my son got nothing.
A man beats up his wife, badly. There is a restraining order against him and he is under house arrest with an ankle bracelet. He says to her mother, I don’t want to upset my wife so I’m not going to try to contact her or go to any of the places where we used to go together. Uh, no, you won’t be contacting her or going to those places anyway. You are under house arrest, so don’t act like you are doing her a favor by not violating the conditions of your release.
What do you call people who act like they are doing you a favor by giving you what is already yours or by not doing things they shouldn’t be doing anyway?