Ok, this has been something that has always disgusted me for years. I’d like to get the dope’s insight on this issue.
On all the male seeking male pages of craigslist, for any city I’ve ever searched, 99% or more of the ads are lewd and ridiculously sexual and over the top. To put it simply, the m4m ads are just gross.
Conversely, the male seeking women ads are almost the exact opposite. They are much more nicely worded, much more nicely phrased, and not nearly as overtly sexual and “nasty”.
As a gay man this has always upset me, because when people accuse gays of being sexually permiscuous and dangerous, the craigslist ads serve as an iconic anecdote of their point.
So, why are men seeking men ads so much more awful than men seeking women? Or for that matter, women seeking women or women seeking men.
If you don’t have any idea what I’m talking about, I’ve spoilered the first 10 ads in Houston from each category. NSFW WARNING. Feel free to check your own city if you think that Houston is just full of gross gay guys for some reason.
M4M
[spoiler]Searchn for YOUNG skater/ HS / Emo / college GUYS - 21 - (Houston)
LOOKING TO SUCK AND BE SUCKED - m4m - 40 - (GALLERIA) pic
Feed me your str8 meat and balls - m4m - 53 - (Westchase) pic
Latin Mouth, ORAL - m4m - 18 - (GREENSPOINT / SPRING / Airtex / Aldine Westfield) pic
Hosting a good cocksucker - 25 - (Downtown)
Quiero chupartela!!- I wanna suck U - 29 - (Southwest ( you host)
Enema for younger Black guys - 47 - (SW - Reliant) pic
R U A Bottom? - m4m - 41 - (Houston) pic
Masc Str8 dude needs to top something NOW - m4m - 27 - pic
these black lips were made to suck this throat made to coat - 24 - (Houston)
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M4W
pakistani yunger guy seeking older woman freind - 25 - (sugarland)
seeking - 24 - (woodlands/spring) pic
country music lover - 26 - (houston) pic
True Story, True Man - 23 - (Houston) pic
That awkward moment… - 23 - (Houston) pic
SURE COULD USE A MASSAGE - 30 - (the woodlands) pic
Seeking to have fun, perhaps more… - 25 - (Houston, TX) pic
Attractive Houston businessman looking for fun/cute personal assistant - 32 - (Galleria Mall area) pic
real women deserve happiness look in here - m4w - 33 - (southside of houston)
Looking for the right girl - 20 - (Clear Lake)
W4M
daddy fantasy - 19 -
Texans girl - 25 - (Nw houston) pic
U LOOKN 4 ME! - 31 - (BAY CITY TX) pic
just that real - 33 - (Houston)
Not Looking For Something Long Term At This Point - (HOUSTON)
BBW (African American) Looking for Friends of all races - 23 - (Houston) pic
WHATS YOUR FAVORITE DRINK? - (HOUSTON)
Long Term - 24 - (Houston) pic
Dont want to be single - 22 - (Loop)
Looking for a companion? - 37 - (Houston) pic
W4W
Where u at? - 28 - (north houston)
bbw n league city looking for longterm - 36 - (any) pic
Gorgeous AA chick!! - 23 - (SW houston)
Needing your touch - 27 - (Houston/Katy)
curious and shy - 40 - (NW Houston) pic
NEW TUH HOUSTON LUKIN FA A FRIEND… - 24 - (NORTH) pic
Hey Ladies - 22 - (Houston )
New in town - 25 - (Houston) pic
I love younger ladies… - 40 - (Katy, Tx) pic
Does my unicorn exist - 26 - (Woodlands/spring)
Which one of these things is not like the other?