Ok, there is the old joke that if a guy wants to last longer during intercourse he should think about sports to delay his orgasm. Well, I have absolutely no interest in sports, and if I am with a woman that needs more time to achieve her orgasm, then I think about my grandmother. Ok, ok, I know that is a little twisted, but i just think about my most recent conversation with my grandmother, and that reduces my horniness enough so that I can last long enough for the woman to achieve her orgasm so I can then go ahead and achieve mine.
After being in a relationship with a women long enough I find myself in a situation where I need to think about other women to have an orgasm. Every woman that I have ever had a relationship with has had a sister or good friend that I could think about that would help me to go ahead and finish. One of my favorites was a girlfriend that kept a picture of her sister next to her bed, and that was great, all I had to do was glance over at the picture, and I was done.
And yes, sometimes thinking about my grandmother does decrease my interest enough that I need to change gears and start thinking about the friend or sister.
Ok, I know I am not the only one, so, who or what do you think about to delay or speed up orgasm ?
I have ADD and take antidepressants. One side benefit is that I can delay indefinitely without having to think about Phyllis Diller, starving African babies, the skinned elbow I got falling off a bike at age 9, a big trough of baked beans garnished with a couple of dead dogs, or R. Lee Ermey.
However, sometimes my attention just naturally wanders in all those directions. At that point, I just pick an attractive television newswoman and imagine being bound and gagged with her pantyhose after an 8-hour on-air shift.