A strange thought occurred to me today. Lots of us Dopers claim to be good in bed (especially with a partner ), but some of that may be ego speaking. I’m not asking for anybody to defend their skills; rather, I’m curious as to who is actually not a good sex partner? No false humility, please – only real bad lays need apply. Virgins, recent ex-virgins, and others who are still learning are exempt from this thread.
I’m guessing there will not be much response. Of course, that’s exactly the problem we’re examining here …
Mrs. Rastahomie (we’ve been married for over four years) has yet to orgasm with me inside her. She usually “finishes the job,” so to speak :o, while I lay next to her and caress her.
rastahomie, according to stuff I learned in a human sexuality class, a lot of women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone. So don’t feel bad. Maybe you could try some appropriately timed…um…manual stimulation if this is a big concern for you.
All of my sexual knowledge is sadly theoretical, but I’ve learned a lot, especially on this board.
I’ve never considered myself especially talented. I’m quite good at foreplay but less so at actually getting my partners off. I’ll spare you the details.
I’m a lousy lay, but then again, I’m new to the wonderful world of two-person sexual pleasure, and unlike my also-new yet talented partner I haven’t come equipped with any natural ability.
), but some of that may be ego speaking. I’m not asking for anybody to defend their skills; rather, I’m curious as to who is actually not a good sex partner? No false humility, please – only real bad lays need apply. Virgins, recent ex-virgins, and others who are still learning are exempt from this thread.
