Can’t I meet someone decent who isn’t a psycho or a loser?
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It doesn’t matter where I go. Sitting at the bus stop waiting for the bus. Riding the goddamn bus or the metro. Walking down the street minding my own business. Doing a presentation. Having a drink at a bar. It just doesn’t matter. The psychos always find me. And it’s not like I’m even being encouraging or flirting with them or nothing. They just approach me and start talking and won’t leave me alone.
[sigh]
Go away. Please? !Deja me sola! No quiero hablar contigo. ?Entiendes?
I just got fed up tonight after meeting yet again another loser. I gave up in disgust, turned to other folks, and asked a fella and his girlfriend where I could go to meet decent fellas, and the fella said I need to go to church to meet them. Hmphff. I don’t want to have to go to church. I ain’t a Christian or of any other established faith, and while I respect other folks’ right to worship whatever they please, I couldn’t give a rat’s ass about Jesus, god, the church or being converted to a religion. I’m tired of the same old bullshit. Where can I go to meet decent fellas what ain’t married, gay, crazy, abusive, or otherwise fucked up in the head? Is this really so much to ask?
In all seriousness, though, apparently joining interest groups–like, y’know, a message board ;)–is a great way to meet people. So I hear, anyway. Of course, the fact that I’d consider a message board to be an interest group probably puts me in the loser category right there.
Yeah, I wish I could help you, but I’m unable to find women who aren’t undateably psycho.
Examples: 28 years old, not bad looking, never been on a date (yes, really); 53 years old, told me for months she was 41 (and like a dumbass I believed her–I’m 30); 24 years old, has slept with every man she’s ever shaken hands with, is heavily medicated. Etc.
To answer your question: Try the P&H Cafe , Memphis, TN, most weeknights at about 2 a.m. I hang out there after work.
celestina, I think it would be easier to give suggestions on where to meet non-psycho, non-loser men if we knew what you meant by psycho and loser.
I mean, are we talking psycho (“I like to vivisect mammals in my basement. Say, women are mammals.”) or are we talking “pyscho” as in poor social skills and a few odd personality quirks?
Here’s what you do… Pretend you don’t like anime, gaming, or computers. Meet woman, fall in love, get married. Wait five years and then BAM! hit her with the fact that you are secretly a fanboy. Begin collecting anime, figures and :eek: plushies like mad.
It works too, just ask my husband.
Yes, I still love him. I just like to give him a hard time.
Well let’s see, married, nope not any more, gay, not that I know of, crazy, well I guess you’re just going to have to define that one but I’m not on any meds if that helps, abusive, no, and not fucked up in the head, at least not much.
So celestina how you doing?
What the hell I’d like to know is where can a 29 year old guy meet women? I guess I shouldn’t have gotten married at such a young age, but that’s the way it works. I should start a thread just to get people to flirt with me for a change.
Hey, just because you go to Church doesn’t mean you have to worship the religion. Didn’t you ever see Boys in the Hood? They started going to Church to pick up chicks. Your friend wasn’t telling you to find religion, just giving you a suggestion of where some non-psychos may hang out.
Of course, if you go to Church, you’ll find out a lot of psychos go there as well, so…
There are several people in this world who are afraid of successful relationships, people wouldn’t know a good thing if it bit them in the ass, people who gravitate toward relationships doomed to spectacular failure because they’re afraid of happiness, because they feel they don’t deserve happiness, blah blah blah…
I’m not saying you’re one of these people, celestina, I’m just saying that I know these people exist. I happen to be one myself. For some reason I’m incapable of paying attention to any woman who lives less than a thousand miles away from me. Yes, I guess I have commitment issues, but I’m working on them.
small, perhaps relevant highjack (there’s an oxymoron for you - “relevant highjack”)
Attrayant, do you find that there are an extraordinary number of female schoolteachers on match.com? I was using it last year and went out on dates with six women. Four of them were teachers. And I didn’t do a scientific survey, but it seemed like around half of the women in the general match.com population were teachers. And I was using very broad criteria in my searches. Not that being a teacher is a bad thing, but it’s weird that there were so disproportionately many teachers on match.com.
