I guess it took BigT awhile to work up that froth.
Now that you’re here, a month and a half later, I’m sure that you have evidence that the couple involved are married. If you do not, your entire rant is nonsensical.
Actually, come to think of it, we’ve yet to see any evidence that the incident even happened, or if it is entirely fictional.
Huh? The issue is that the presumed adultery is none of the nosy person’s business.
Granted. It’s still none of the business of people not actually involved in the marriage or said betrayal.
One shouldn’t do it and then act on it to insert oneself into the dynamics of another person’s marriage.
You got that one right.
Nope. Wrong. They should’ve STFU. It was absolutely none of their business.
Ah, the convenience of “moral responsibility” when it comes to sticking one’s nose into someone else’s private business! Again, the nosy people should’ve simply STFU.
Actually, you really do get to do that when the “something immoral” you find out about is (a) not a crime and (b) is absolutely none of your business.
So you recognize that different people have different ideas about morals relating to, say, marriage? Then it shouldn’t be that hard to grasp that the issue here is that the presumed adultery is absolutely none of the nosy people’s business.
No, it’s not. First: rape is a crime. Second, there are such things as “open marriages”. Now, I personally find the open marriage to be immoral, but it’s none of my business as to who is involved in such and it’s certainly not my business to stick my nose into someone else’s marriage.
No. What people are saying is that nosy people need to STFU when they discover something that isn’t their business.
Nope. The nosy people assumed that the man in the marriage they’re butting into has the same set of morals they do. They then blabbed their tidbit of gossip to him. For what reason? It certainly wasn’t so he could feel all cozy inside, assuming (as they did) that he has the same morals they do. They wanted to somehow punish someone (the wife) for doing something they didn’t like her doing.
Again, nope. People are treating sticking noses into someone’s marriage with a hope of disrupting that marriage as a pretty nasty and low thing to do.
I’m not following you there. Could you clarify or even expand?
Or evidence that the man didn’t already know, evidence the man cared/did not care about the presumed betrayal, evidence that the couple asked for the nosy people’s “assistance” with their marriage?
Excellent point.