I would be willing to give up my job as a telemarketer if I were to stumble upon a reliable source of oral sex.
I read an interview in Playboy by that guy who wrote the Mars/Venus books. He estimated that a large portion, I don’t remember his number, of marriages that end in divorce wouldn’t end up that way if the woman would blow her husband on a regualr basis, a few times a week.
although… giving oral to women is probably the best thing in the world…
- they love it… so I love it
- they become very grateful…
relationships do work better with oral… in my expiriances…
my last girlfreind and I did not have a good sex life… (no oral) she didn’t do it to guys… and she thought it was gross when a guy did it to her… it made things dull…
my new girlfriend and I both give and recieve equally and frequently…
she is getting a ring soon…
; )
(thats not the only reason…)
I wouldn’t leave my SO if she wouldn’t blow me. Well, not permanently anyway.
well… let me say this… Women controll all the true power in the universe.
Well, complicated issue.
My GF, for the most part, never gives me oral sex. It averages out to about twice a mon th, I think, and that’s only because in the first couple of months it was about once a week…and we’ve been together for a year. Also, she has never driven me to orgasm from oral either.
On the other hand, I go down on her almost every time we have sex. While I can’t say with 100% certainty that she has orgasmed, I am 99% sure I have driven her to orgasm quite a few times.
Am I upset that I hardly ever get oral? Yes. Am I going to leave her for it? No.
Now, let’s say we break up and I go on the dating scene again, then I might not continue dating a girl if I’m not more sexually satisfied (which goes beyond just getting oral, BTW.)
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- If oral sex is not important, then is sex at all important?
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- If oral sex is not important, then is sex at all important?
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I think it’s important, but gods above…these are the kind of things that need to be TALKED about in a relationship, preferably before getting committed.
Frankly, I’d like to give the SO more oral. And have more sex. However, until we figure out a way to have real sex long distance…ain’t happening.
I don’t think that “a blowjob” is enough to get a man to leave, but an exciting sexual relationship could probably do it. If the original woman wasn’t into oral sex, perhaps there was a lot else she wasn’t into. But if the new woman is into oral, she’s probably into a lot of other things as well.
I think some women think of sex like getting a massage–it feels nice, but it’s no big deal if you don’t get one for a few months. But for men, sex is a more basic desire like hunger. A hunger which needs to be satisfied a few times a week.
So ladies, if you’re in a relationship where you only have sex a couple of times a month, I can almost guarantee your man is satisfying his needs in other ways. He’s not necessarily getting oral satisfaction somewhere else however, Most likely he’s taking matters into his own hands if you get my drift.
He’s forming a vigilante group?
“A” blowjob would have to be really spectacular to get me to change my mind about important things. It may be enough for me to agree to not call the cops on a shoplifter, maybe, if she’s really cute. And she returned the merchandise 
OTOH, as mentioned before, a pattern of unsatisfying sex may well erode a relationship.
If men could teach themselves to give themselves blowjobs more marriages would survive.
lol…or would they get married at all???
is that something you can learn??
hmmmmmmm…
You are surely the wittest of the even-toed ungulates!
Tom Robbins’ Half Asleep in Frog Pajamas had a female character with this line:
Show me a woman that doesn’t give head, and I’ll show you a husband I can steal.
Take that, camels!
It doesn’t change our minds, but it can certainly blank them for a while. Kind of like that Jedi trick.
I think that’s less a matter of education and more a matter of flexibility…
After all, men wouldn’t need girlfriends in that case.
Random question:
Why are blowjobs such a big deal?
I mean, okay, I can see some need for going down on a chick–after all, some chicks can’t climax from intercourse. But guys…guys get off from vaginal. And there are lots of different ways to do it–even/especially female-superior, during which the female, not the male, controls things (another aspect of blowjobs). So…why all the hub-bub?
(This isn’t to say I don’t enjoy GIVING them–there’s nothing better than knowing “I made him make that funny face!” But I just don’t understand why blowjobs are so special.)
It’s not just that we like to get off, a “blowjob” just feels different. Yeah, regular sex is nice, but occaisionally we like to mix it up a little. Sure, I like Italian food, but I like a little Mexican and Chinese every now and then
There’s probably some more too, something Freudian, with moms or something. There’s ALWAYS something Freudian.