On another message board we were discussing autogynephilia which is where a male is sexually aroused by the thought or fantasy of being a woman. An individual thought that this should be expanded to women as well because most/all women were turned on by women’s clothing and dress sexy to get themselves hot. They said that it was common for women to be turned on by their expressions of their femininity.
I disagreed. When I feel sexy, I am not necessarily physically aroused. Although I have been aroused while in women’s clothing, it is not the clothes or my own womanhood which turns me on, it is the thoughts of the person I am dressing for that get me going. I have been aroused/felt sexy in women’s, men’s and gender neutral clothing.
Basically:
When you feel sexy are you aroused? Does expressing your femininity get you aroused?