Not at the right time and place, necessarily.
Part of what creates the myth is that males see themselves as having a greater propensity for acting recklessly while under the orders of Mr. Boner, and placing themselves at risk of injury, embarassment or arrest to get some, while the ladies look to them like they’re better able to keep themselves composed even through the fog of lust. This difference in control of expression is mistaken for intensity of arousal.
Yes. The week before ovulation being most intense.
I have all of the above: direct thoughts, fantasies, and constant low-level desire.
I think there’s always a “sex would be nice” vibe running through the back of my mind but yeah, sometimes there’s a klaxon in my [del]pants[/del] head blaring “SEX! NOW!”
Definitely hornier when ovulating. Obviously not horny when pre-menstrual but I do get revved up during my period which is just weird. It’s always like, “As soon as this is over I’m so getting laid!” Then it’s over and I’m back to thinking sex would be nice but it’s not necessary.
Do you guys get horny for no reason? Sometimes I’ll be drafting a map and all the sudden I’m raring to go.
Makes me wish I could sit my vag down and ask it questions like, “WTF dude, we’re at work why are you excited?”
I get so horny the day before my period starts that if it’s not taken care of, I’ll have a sex dream that night and orgasm in my dream.
If I’m not dating, or at least seeing someone, I’ll break out the dildos, vibrators, and some porn.
I’ve also been told I’m not, um, representative.
Referring to a vagina as ‘dude’…man, that just ain’t right.
LOL, I’ve caught flak for that before…well, using dude in the female sense, not calling my vagina a dude…throw me a shovel, my hands are tired. 
I’m not sure if it’s regional or generational but my contemporaries and I use “guys” and “dude” in a genderless fashion. I honestly think the “dude” thing comes from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles in the formative years.
Yes, yes it does, dude.
I too watched TMNT religiously growing up and I use “dude” for dudes and dudettes.
I’m a dude for the record.
And who could forget All That’s Goodburger song from SNICK at Night?
“I’m a dude…
He’s a dude…
She’s a dude…”
Also, Full House helped with it too “You got it, dude!” :thumbs up:
Kind of like how women check out men: we (supposedly) can determine the guy’s religion without the slightest turn of our head or any other outward sign that we’re even aware of the guy’s existence. The stereotype is that men are painfully obvious in their scoping out of attractive potential sex partners.
Maybe women are just less overt.
Thanks for the most radical post dude!
Larry Miller: “The difference in sex drive between a man and a woman is like the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it.”
This is me, to a T! Although I rarely get past mildly horny at work, well, because I just try and distract myself (ooooo spreadsheets! Database analysis!).
And the urge dissipates after sex, but rears its (ugly?) head fiercer than the first time.
The Pill tamed my desire a bit, but for the better - it was downright intrusive beforehand. Plus it’s a good tradeoff with the improved acne.
And a week before, the urge is, at times, wicked. The more I’m exercising and the better I’m eating, the stronger it is.
Why the snide comment on pay stubs, Beware Of Doug? I’m in my early 20’s, but my female friends look for a man who can take care of himself and who aspires for more, but the golddigger/stay at home mom desire of yore is gone.
Oh, and I should close with this fun fact: a few years ago, my parents were fighting quite a bit, and decided to divorce (they reconciled a few weeks later, and are happier than I can ever remember). My mom had filed, and spoke with her attorney. He asked which it was, sex or money. My mom said they were fighting a lot about money, and then she said - and I curse the day I heard this - “Sex? Oh it’s still great, he’s just being a total ASSHOLE when it comes to money!”:o In hindsight I almost want to know if my 50 and 60 year old parents were still sleeping together while they were (almost) getting divorced. Gross to the 10th degree, only barely beating out the time I found a bottle of Viagra in the pharmacy bag containing my strep throat antibiotic. :smack:
So uh, I guess I’m genetically lucky.
Up to when I was 16 years old I was really innocent and awkward when it came to sex… But after falling into the trap (yes it’s a TRAP) of reading smut… My years of pent up sexual frustration exploded… almost literally.
I found myself masturbating a lot, watching porn, reading smut, fantasizing… I was kind of out of control… I remember being so horny one day that I probably masturbated at least 5 times that day… It was all fun in games until I got into the dark hole of sexting. At first it was just calling random guys and us mutually masturbating… But then I found myself sending nudes… and videos of myself masturbating… And one day I just felt so ashaned and was like HEY CALM DOWN YOU HORNY ASSS WOMAN.
I still masturbate and read smut, but I rarely watch porn and I stopped sexting.
I find myself in a predicament though. I am currently in a long distance relationship and I won’t be seeing my boyfriend until next december… I feel so lusty towards him it’s unbelievable. I guess i’m going to have to amp up my masturbation methods or I’m going to lose it.
Well, I hope this thread helped you out.
Welcome to the Dope.
This is due to societal expectation. Guys have to make it obvious otherwise women won’t even notice him. Flattery and attention is catnip to females.
I realize the OP is old, but how has anyone with any curiosity about the female sex drive made it to this site without perusing porn? Have you seen porn? Women will flash just about anything and stuff just about anything in there.
ETA: do you really think those big, ridiculous massagers and technicolor vibrators inspire thoughts of romance? Of course not. The itch needs to be scratched, just like yours, and the only reason you could possibly ask this question online is if you have a confirmation bias fetish.
I wonder what role testosterone plays in a women’s sex drive?
Quite, but it’s not complicated. Whether or not we are consciously craving pregnancy, the hormones that ramp up around ovulation influence an awful lot of our behavior. They make us prettier Fertility Affects Women's Attractiveness, Study Finds | HuffPost Women
They make us more receptive to sex That Ex-Lover Who Keeps Popping Up in Your Dreams | Psychology Today
Feminine fertility corresponds with a heightened sex drive. Thousands of studies explain what instinct ought to cover.
But do the levels of testosterone in a woman’s body have any influence over her sex drive, in the same way that they do for a man’s?
One of several factors, yes. Female sexual dysfunction is often treated with testosterone. Too many articles and studies to pick from, but female+libido+testosterone pulls a few million results. Anecdotally, when I worked at a gym female body builders were notorious for having a high sex drive.
Since nobody has asked the obvious question yet, I guess I’ll do it. 
Do zombie women get horny? 