There is this woman I know, we have been talking and being flirty and whatnot. She sometimes exerts a lot of effort on her hair, but on days when she is rushed she just puts it in a bun. However the bun actually looks better, so recently when I saw her with her hair not done up I complimented her and told her it looks better that way.
If a guy gives you a legitimate compliment telling you you look better when you do something that you think is the opposite of ‘done up’ how do you take it? Do you feel upset because you feel people don’t appreciate the work you put into yourself, or do you feel like people like the more natural look?