Do you have a namesake who is a nasty piece of work?
There’s this dude in New Zealand. Also (Googling) a professor at the U of Washington. Don’t know of their personal predelictions. I have my doubts about the Kiwi though…
What can you describe about “the biggest shitstorm in history?”
Yes, post #60 appears to have been made after the imbibing of several containers of alcohol…
One line of advice: enjoy the process. Don’t make dating a means to an end.
Perhaps a glimpse of the underlying issue with OP’s dating troubles?
Isn’t that usually the point of dating?.. a means to an end.
I’ve been around here for fifteen f’ing years. I don’t post too much, but you’d be hard pressed to find a long-termer who would say that I’m a liar or exaggerator or a drunk. OK, maybe the last one, but not the first two.
It is for some people, but that makes dating itself into a chore. It should be its own reward. Consider it like going dancing. To some people, it’s a means to an end: they go dancing to meet potential dates. Other people enjoy dancing for its own sake, and that’s as it should be (IMHO).
Hey, I’m not accusing you of anything, Lamar, except maybe providing insufficient information…
As noted above, he doesn’t know what he’s supposed to have said or done.
How would the person he hasn’t talked to in a decade have even heard of it?
I’m kind of dying to know what happened.
Yep, me too. Lamar Mundane, you have us hooked on the soap opera that is now your life. Please share the gory details. If you don’t know the why, at least the WTF happened. 
I got to this post. And I laughed out loud. Probably not a good idea either on my part. Don’t mess with the ladies as they will cut you for chopped liver. 
Oh yes. Been there. Wimmen, love
em.
Recently. As in yesterday.
I can show you numerous examples of myself and drowning my sorrows here. But cut him some slack … it is only Tuesday after all.
Or is it Wednesday already?
It is why they invented the blues…
Maybe this will help.
His post could have come direct from one of those needy Facebook status’ though, you know the type…
“omg I can’t believe this has happened”
“U ok hun?”
“Aww you wee angle stay strong luv”
“So what actually happened?”
“I can’t say…”
Even if he doesn’t know what he is supposed to have specifically done a little bit of context would have gone a long way.
It suddenly presented itself that this was a year-old OP. My apologies.:smack: