Like what in the bar, in view of everyone?! :dubious: That doesn’t sound workable without viagra, or if creepy dudes staring at you intently during oral sex is your thing.
There are some cultures that strongly look down on the practice of cunnilingus. I’m thinking of the early episode of Sopranos where Uncle Junior got pissed at Tony for telling people he’d gone down on a girl, causing some of the other mafia guys to give him a hard time.
If you’re into girls using there mouths on your dick, the fact that some other people are around will rarely be relevant (and yes, I know from exeprience;)).
Ok, now I understand what you were getting at.
At least with the OP, I didn’t read that as the implication. I saw it as more of a benign interest in exploring the thought process. I don’t think anyone reasonable would challenge the answer: “because I don’t like it”, as that’s perfectly acceptable. However, it wouldn’t really lend well to discussion.
I don’t think it’s too crazy to suggest that many guys would not enjoy receiving oral while surrounded by a bunch of gawkers. Maybe you do, and that’s cool. But why does that have to mean that everyone does?
Reminds me of a (fantastic) 2008 Sean Flynn article about singer James Brown for GQ. Re Brown’s opinion of women and their place in his life:
"He’d hop on, roll off. Straight missionary, straight to the point. He never saw a reason for much else. “Why’s a white man eat a woman?” he once asked a white friend. “What’s he get outta that?”
O, I’m not particularly a fan… but sometimes you have little say in the matter;). Even if you seriously don’t like the public aspect, I would be surprised if a loss of erection would be the result (from what I’ve seen at least). If you don’t enjoy it, you move somewhere else quickly (but most likely with everything in working order). But sure, who knows what exceptions there are.
ps Didn’t intend to hijack.
Dude, you hang out at European brothels pretty much all of the time. Your and your compatriots’ perspectives on public sex are, I promise you, not those of a representative sample of humanity.
We were talking about Thai BJ bars here… the least you can say is that visitors go there for a reason. Whether these guys differ from the ‘normal’ population or not.
Well, I mean, unless they were *trying *to do it wrong, it would be pretty hard to fail so miserably. Sex can be lame without anything in particular going horribly wrong, but for me, oral can’t. If the guy was bitching about it or something, that would just be bizarre.
But more to the point, you’ve never had it? Any particular reason why not?
I dated a guy who honestly had no clue what he was doing. It was like he’d never seen a vagina in his life. I don’t know what “technique” he was using but it was painful and awkward, and he should have been banned from doing it ever again.
I like 69 just for that reason, sort of. I mean, giving and receiving at the same time relieves my from really having to focus on either and somehow makes me enjoy both even more.
I read this and I was wondering what you were talking about, then I re-read what I wrote. Damn my coding when I’m on my phone. Sorry. I was trying to italicize bad and somehow skipped straight to the cunnilingus part. I have no idea how I did that, but yes, I’ve had plenty of it and all fine, as I can remember. I apologize for confusing everyone. Ugh.
Sorry. I have banned myself. It will never be a concern again, especially now that you prefer the company of women.
What are you even talking about?
Anyway, this needs to be repeated from another thread:
The only thing wrong with 69 is the view.
It’s a joke. I personally know I Like Pie.
There are Thai sex workers who don’t do oral but still make a go of it. They’re certainly not working in the BJ bars though. But my advice is always discuss with the lass just what’s on offer. There is one well-known brothel, the French-owned and -operated Eden Club – and it is a brothel, not a bar – where it’s a two-girl minimum rule, you can’t take just one. And Marc has a yellow line on the wall of the bar, and the girls on the left are willing to do anal and those on the right do not. An easy way of knowing.
Lest you think I’m too creepy, yes I do know a lot of bar owners and working girls. Bangkok’s a bit like Casablanca in that if you stay here long enough, you get to know all types of characters, both unsavory and otherwise.
The wife has an interest too. As some on the Board already know, she’s a government researcher attached to a large university in Bangkok. A demographer. Twenty-five years ago, her office was tasked with counting the prostitute population in Thailand. They came up with the laughingly low figure of 200,000. They knew this was bogus, but the data were what the date were. One problem was the definition of prostitute since there are so many part-timers out there, especially toward the end of the month when rent is coming due.
She’s also done Aids studies – with her results published in international journals – that show the highest at-risk population in Thailand is fishermen. These guys are out at sea for weeks at a time and just go hog-wild crazy when they get back to shore. Couple that with their alm,ost complete lack of formal schooling, and you have a disaster in the making. All of her studies on this were conducted in the 1990s though, so some follow-up research might be in order now. But other studies show the Aids prevalence among Thai hookers to be quite low, certainly not anything like in neighboring Cambodia say. And if you look at Thai prostitutes who focus on farang (Westerner) tourists, the prevalence goes way down. The real Aids-ridden hookers are those servicing the bottom-of-the-barrel manual laborers and such, the two- or three-dollar girls. The ones in the main red-light areas are more their own free agents – a BIG complaint among the bar owners is girls constantly just taking off or changing bars on a whim – and tend to be at least somewhat better educated, especially about how to take care of themselves. There is even a prostitutes’ union, Empower, with offices in the Patpong red-light area.
Anyway, jusy threw that in so you won’t think I’m creepy. At least, not too much so. 
Now back to the dick-sucking!
This thread reminds me of Dante’s girlfriend in “Clerks”, who had only had sex with 3 men in her life. But she considered sex defined just as intercourse; she didn’t think oral sex was sex, so the 36 guys she’d given blowjobs to didn’t count to her.
Bill Clinton must’ve seen this movie before his dates with Monica.
“Thirty-six dicks?!?!?!”