Ok, if you don’t believe **Aesiron **because you two have had differences before, then I am thinking the same things as him. And I’ve always been supportive of you.
**Aesiron **makes some excellent points and he doesn’t couch them in polite terms. Perhaps he feels you need to hear them. I do, too.
Okay, I am going to throw my post into it, I was going to throw it in the Pit, but I don’t think it will be harsh enough for that.
**One thing – I am not proud of the woman I was before, the woman I am going to talk about now, try not to judge me too harshly. At the time I was VERY screwed up and not in my right mind, but it bears some relevance -
**Lobsang ** – I have been that woman. The woman with the boyfriend and the kling-on friend that confessed his love to her. I too told him I wasn’t interested but maybe someday. It was very ego-stroking to have a batter on deck.
He hung around for YEARS. I broke up with that guy and played with him a while, always watching out for the NEXT best thing. We would get all hot and heavy and I would invite him to have sex, knowing he wouldn’t, because he didn’t want to do that without a commitment. Made him get an STD test. Never actually slept with him. A few weeks later I met my future husband. Actually broke off our little “fling” (wasn’t a relationship as I was dating a few guys at that time) when I got him to drive me home from a social and had my (now husband) then boyfriend meet me at home.
He was a VERY NICE guy. I DID NOT love him, and NEVER WOULD. I liked him fine, he listened to me, cared about me and complimented me all the time. It was very gratifying, but HELL FOR HIM.
If I could g back I would tell him to run from me as fast as he could. I can’t go back. But I can tell you.
She is not into you. She never will be. She may like how you make her feel with all of your secret looks and compliments, but she will never be with you.
MOVE ON!
“I’m so easily led,
When the little head,
Does the the thinking.” --John Hiatt
Poysyn, all that font size stuff is so distracting, I can’t remember what you wanted to say. Was there some point you wanted to make?
Darling? Is that you?
Lobbers, is this ‘the’ same girl?
No single one of your posts says it outright, but the pattern of behaviour painted by all of them taken together reveals (I think) her to be a)not actually interested in you in the way you’d like and b)playing cruel games with you.
Take off the rose-tinted specs and stop being this manipulative woman’s puppet.
Lobsang, you and I’ve known each other for years. You know, I think, that I like you, and have even been interested you at times. I hope you don’t consider me an enemy or someone who’d try to deliberately hurt you for the sake of cruelty. Nevertheless, what I’m about to type will cause you some temporary pain.
Walk away, now. Please? Yes, it’ll hurt. Sticking with this mockery of a romance will hurt you worse in the long run and you deserve better. I repeat, you deserve better!
I was, once, deeply, passionately, and, I thought, permanently in love with the man of my dreams. In my case, it was even reciprocated. I didn’t think there was a better man on the face of the earth. Then it ended and I thought my heart was shattered. I didn’t think I’d find a man that wonderful again. I let go, moved on, did things which looked interesting, including taking up with this place. I didn’t find a man that wonderful; I found a man who’s better. He’s taking me dancing tonight (ballroom dance lessons).
Let her go and find a woman who’s worthy of you. This skank isn’t.
With much affection,
CJ
you tell him, Doc.. sounds like he would've gone for any little bullshit game just to get next to that chickenhead :dubious:Sorry for all the font changes. Did it late last night and I was super tired.
Let me try that again - normal - sorry in advance for the temporary double post - I have requested the one above be deleted -
Okay, I am going to throw my post into it, I was going to throw it in the Pit, but I don’t think it will be harsh enough for that.
**One thing – I am not proud of the woman I was before, the woman I am going to talk about now, try not to judge me too harshly. At the time I was VERY screwed up and not in my right mind, but it bears some relevance -
Lobsang – I have been that woman. The woman with the boyfriend and the kling-on friend that confessed his love to her. I too told him I wasn’t interested but maybe someday. It was very ego-stroking to have a batter on deck.
He hung around for YEARS. I broke up with that guy and played with him a while, always watching out for the NEXT best thing. We would get all hot and heavy and I would invite him to have sex, knowing he wouldn’t, because he didn’t want to do that without a commitment. Made him get an STD test. Never actually slept with him. A few weeks later I met my future husband. Actually broke off our little “fling” (wasn’t a relationship as I was dating a few guys at that time) when I got him to drive me home from a social and had my (now husband) then boyfriend meet me at home.
He was a VERY NICE guy. I DID NOT love him, and NEVER WOULD. I liked him fine, he listened to me, cared about me and complimented me all the time. It was very gratifying, but HELL FOR HIM.
If I could go back I would tell him to run from me as fast as he could. I can’t go back. But I can tell you.
She is not into you. She never will be. She may like how you make her feel with all of your secret looks and compliments, but she will never be with you.
MOVE ON!