Would a man saying "I'm a feminist" to explain his lack of deferential manners to dates be OK?

To be honest, it gets confusing.

Can one be all for equal rights, equal pay, equal opportunity, all that but still be proud to be a guy and ok to get turned on by a hot womans body? Granted I know you can look but dont touch or allow yourself to be seen looking.

So I need to ask you, is a feminist man required to turn off the “boobies are hot” part of their brains?