PS, any guy who is screwing around in his relationships when he’s got a 9 year old kid to think of is not maturing any time soon. Has your friend met the kid? Does she have any kind of relationship with the child? If so, then this ass is messing with his kid’s head as well as your friend’s. Kids form attachments, jealousies, and all kinds of feelings in respect to their parents’ new love interests. He should be thinking about forming a relationship that is beneficial to his child, not how he can get with his girlfriend’s best friend.
8 ouch!