He’s perfect in every way, but dude blows his load within 30 seconds every time.
Dealbreaker?
I think there are therapies for your problem, Stringbean. I’d suggest talking to your doctor.
It would only be a dealbreaker if he wasn’t willing to see a doctor or therapist to help with the problem.
Well, I thought it was funny…
Sorry to hear it, Stringbean. That’s gotta be a bummer.
In related news, I saw a Viagra commercial last night. It’s a sexy woman talking about the problem. I always wonder if that commercial is a parody when I see it.
Pretty ineffective therapies though.
If he’s perfect in every way I’ll blow my load in 5 seconds and be fast asleep from all the pizza he brought me. Why should I care?
Not having this issue, I’ve always wondered: Can’t you just get him hard again, and he’ll have a harder time cumming the second time? And if not that time, then the third?
And can’t you like put two condoms on so he can’t feel much and then it would take longer?
Thanks for the explanation.
I am not gay so certainly not and tell him to stay away from my stuff.
Aww Greeny, you think I’m perfect in every way!
We’re like two beans in the same pod. We can work around this “problem” 
I always had a hard time with the concept as well (no pun intended). It is perfectly understandable to be a premature ejaculator when you are 14 when even brushing against something pretty might set it off but not nearly as understandable at 25 and certainly not at 40. If you are a premature ejaculator, it means that you aren’t beating it enough to put things bluntly. You have to flog that pony until it is back under complete control again. Get more porn and beat that problem through sheer determination. Men differ but anyone should be able to wear themselves down so that they can still get an erection but have epic stamina. It isn’t that difficult to do as long as you have the will to go the distance.
Yes, this is a way to combat the problem. However, one issue that is frequently found with this method is a decrease in erection strength with each subsequent ejaculation.
Or be impossible.
As a morbidly obese, prematurely ejaculating judgemental piece of crap, the SDMB is really making me feel down lately.
Yeah when I was a teenager it was common advice for a guy to rub one out real quick 15 minutes before you expected to get down to the act with your girl.
It’s the gentlemanly thing to do 
Using two condoms is one of the worst things you can do, at least if you’re using them for protection. They’re much more likely to tear that way.
Just this. 
Two dope 'beans, sitting in a tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G
First comes snark
Then comes marriage
Then comes. . . . “problem”
Oh well, two out of three ain’t bad. 
Actually there are very effective treatments for premature ejaculation. Most SSRI antidepressants have the side effect of making it take much longer to achieve orgasm and they are sometimes prescribed off label to treat premature ejaculation.
Come again?
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