I really should get around to admitting this. I’m a minute-man. The Flash. A pre-mature ejaculator.
So, I’m sitting at about 2-3 minutes on average. This holds true for masturbation, handjobs, and oral sex. Needless to say, I want to improve. My girlfriend and I aren’t going to be doing anything more than kissing for a while, so it’s not a matter of pleasing her at the moment. It’s more a matter of my ego and future encounters.
How can I lengthen the time it takes me to orgasm? When masturbating, I’ve tried not allowing myself to do so for set lengths of time–fifteen, twenty, or thirty minutes–but all I end up doing is approaching orgasm, stopping, restarting for a few seconds, and then having to stop again. I’ve done this for at least a month, maybe two, and I see no improvement.