Yes, you may sleep on my sofa (long)

BethCro, I can see you handling this problem easily with

  1. A new screenname

  2. A new phone number (mobil too, Dear)

  3. Some courage and a firm resolve to say “No” until you’re at 20,000 feet & he’s still in London.

Or, if you saty in London,

  1. New door locks (maybe with 2 pair of large, strong metal brackets across the top & bottom of your front door with a hardened 2-by-4 resting within each pair? He’s shown a temper, after all…)
    I know, this is inconvenient and money doesn’t grow on trees. But as long as you’re alive, you will have more time and can make more money. There are men out there who might be worth the love you’re showing, but he’s not one of them. And you can’t well meet the Good ones until you toss out the Bad one. Best of luck and best wishes to you. Your test of personal strength begins right now.