My wife’s 87 year-old father died about a year ago without writing a will. Of course there are complications, such as an estranged wife who was still legally married to him, a pseudo-hoarded house and farm lot, seven siblings who don’t speak with each other, and a small hardscrabble farm that’s close to being annexed by the city and has development potential in a few years.
One of the siblings has a lawyer who has arranged for that brother to be co-executor (actually, personal representative), along with the estranged wife. His lawyer wrote up an agreement that the estranged wife will give up her rights under (Minnesota) state law in exchange for a cash payment from the estate, which just leaves the seven siblings to work the farm property itself. The sibling with the lawyer would then become the sole administrator. Everyone agrees that that is fine.
Included in the lawyer’s paperwork that my wife is supposed to sign is some worrisome wording, which is the question I want to discuss, with the part in question in bold:
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I (the other siblings) waive any right to object to the inventory, check ledger, deeds (etc.) I also waive further notice of and right to participate in a hearing to consider and approve the administration of the estate.
To me that seems like the brother who would become the sole administrator would be given free-rein to do whatever he wants with the estate. For example, could he sell the farm to one of his friends for $7 and give each sibling one dollar? Doesn’t being executor have an fiduciary responsibility to the other parties (his siblings)? How can that be enforced if the siblings can’t participate any hearings?
And of course, that’s the brother that really wants the farm, while everyone else wants to just sell the place and divide the proceeds (about $70,000, so nothing major). He’s not a farmer; he just wants a place to play with on a four-wheeler and park an RV (the farmhouse is unlivable). He thinks that the rent being paid by a neighbor for the land is enough to pay off the taxes on the farm, because he doesn’t have any real income or savings or credit worthiness. And none of the other siblings really need the money or the farm!
This is long enough, but it seems to me that a mediator between the siblings is needed, but I can’t say much to the rest of her family. Thoughts on potential problems here?