You ever wanted to be molested by your teacher or babysitter?

After reading about the Florida case involving a pretty darn cute woman and a 14 yr-old boy involving freely given blowjobs and a few sessions of the ol’ in-out-in-out…I thought back to my days as a horny lad.

Yes, as an adult I can see the criminal aspect of these adults preying on confused, hormonal minds and how that is a no-no. As a parent I can project all of the fears that come with sex at such a young age and its all-too-real repercussions (STD’s, pregnancy). And, to add, I was touched in an inappropriate way by my Boy Scout leader once…which was a very uncomfortable situation to be in, to say the least.

Aside from all of that…Boy, do I remember some older-than-me hotties that I just HOPED would have molested me. (and yes, I recognize that if I was gay the Scout leader might…well, actually not. I’m sure I would have wanted a better looking man even in that circumstance)

In Colorado it was illegal to leave an under-12 year-old alone in the home. But to play it safe, my mom had babysitters for me until I was officially 13. (Maybe she just feared I would have burned the place down). But at age 12 I had hormones and a fucking hot babysitter. Just, just, just, just damned good looking. And 18; she just graduated from HS and was attending community college. I didn’t know exactly what she could do to me, but if she had done anything, I would have been ALL for it. Repeatedly.

Then there was my Homeroom teacher in Junior High.

And the next door neighbor.

And the lifeguard at the summer pool.

And the older sister of every single one of my friends that had older sisters.

And a few of their moms.

And even a few of my cousins…Aaaahhh…Caroline, I’ve never seen you since, but how you played a part in my naughty thoughts before bed for many a year.

From 12 to 15 I would have dearly loved to have been touched, fondled or what-have-you by a good portion of the women I met in the 12 to 40 age range (above that started to approach my mom and that was just eeewwwwww).

I was lucky enough to start having sex by a month before I turned 16. Wow…I just realized that I am approaching the 20-yr anniversary of that. Anyways, from that moment on I still fantisized about older women, but I realized that none would have me, so I stuck with my age group and a lot of begging.

I question how traumatic it would have been to me if I had been sexual from a younger age. Probably only if an STD or pregnancy had happened…Which is exactly why we protect our children from just such an occurance.

Is it different in women? Would there be STDs, pregnancy AND emotional scars to deal with once older? I really can’t see how I, as a guy, would have had any emotional problems from screwing my babysitter. It would probably be something that to this day I would be fantasizing about occasionally.

-Tcat

I developed a killer crush on my babysitter at age 6. I even wrote her a goodbye love letter when she headed to Illinois for grad school. I was sooo sad.

You brought back a creepy memory my therapist and I thought for sure had been thouroughly repressed.

I too had my fantasies about being - let’s not mince words, we’re all adults here - raped. Sure I had my list of hopefuls, and closely cross-references yours item for item. The creepy part is there was only one senior in my high school I thought capable of actually having such thoughts - and she was butt ugly!

Let me be clear: I am a deep admirer of the female form in all shapes and varieties. For me to use the word “ugly” is not “Oooh, she has a mole.” When I say you could shove her face in a bowl of dough to make gorilla cookies, I must guiltily apologize to the gorillas.

But she was tough, mean, and seemed to me most likely to commit a crime - and I was young, horny, desperately curious as to what this sex stuff was all about, and woefully bereft of any actual opportunities to find out (or so I believed - if only I knew then what I know now). So there you have it - my anecdote.

You wouldn’t happen to be Paul Anka, by any chance?

Thank you for that, I needed a laugh :stuck_out_tongue:

I went to parochial school. We had nuns. Well-aged nuns, for the most part. Never a source of temptation.

My first case of severe horniness for a teacher was for my 7th grade English teacher. I was 13, she was maybe 23-24 or so. And hot. She taught there for one year, then got married and moved. And that should have broken my heart, but by then I had the hots for pretty much every female in my classes.

In other words, I was a typical teenage boy…

I’d have to say not, or at least not unless college professors count.

I don’t think I had a babysitter after the age of 10 or 11 or so, and while there were some I’d have happily sat next to and held hands, or kissed, I didn’t have any overt erotic interest in them.

As for teachers, I just don’t think they were any competition for the girls my own age. When I was 13, girls 11-15 were ever so much more beautiful and sexy than girls 18-24, let alone schoolteachers 28-63.

Come to think of it, I wasn’t entirely unacquainted with erotic feelings when I was 9 or 11, back when I was One of the Babysat, it’s just that those feelings were pretty exclusively focused on girls my own age. I don’t think my imagination extended to “gee, I’d like it if Eileen or Betsy stuck their hand in my pants and started playing with my parts”, that was just totally not on my imagination-map, but feeling a rather intense and delicious fascination over the shape that Gail’s shorts made in front, the V shape, (a constellation of emotions and thoughts that aren’t much different from what I feel nowadays if I see a cute female in a tight bikini), or trying to get a glimpse of Susette’s undies crotch from where she was sitting in her short skirt.

Adult females? <childhood shrug>

Babysitters: There were two that I would have gladly let take advantage of me.

Teachers: There were none that I had that I ever found attactive enough to fantasize about, let alone lust after. But… there was one teacher that was incredibly hot that taught Home Economics in High School. I and most every boy in school, would have loved to have a physical experience with her.

Seems like every few months there’s a case of a good looking female teacher hooking up with a 13-14 year old student. My question is, why the HELL are they ratting on them? Why ruin a beautiful thing?

Just as well… old habits lie hard.

There were reports - quietly hushed up by the pastor - that one of the male youth leaders had “touched” a couple of the boys in my age group, let’s say 11-14 at the time. I remember being disappointed I wasn’t one of them.

Hm…none of my teachers or babysitters did it for me. But my son’s 1st grade teacher, I’d let her take advantage of me any time…well, except for that time–I’m squeamish.

To first add to the hijack: My wife is a TA for third grade and the teacher who she works with is pretty hot too. I told Deadeyesmom that they were the best looking clasroom combo is the school. It’s true. Today the classes had a field trip and I got to see all the parents driving to the trip. I called her at lunch and told her that she had the best looking moms in her class too.

Babysitters hell yeah. I see a few that babysat me every now and then and even though they are getting older some still do it. English teacher in 9-10th grade could have done whatever she wanted with me. Of course most of my 2 years older than me sister’s friends I was crazy about and wished that they could have come over swimming every single day of the year.

Does rabid crush I had on the handsome English teacher I used to babysit for count?

I have a vague recollection of being in the 10-12 age range and fantasizing about older women, but I didn’t really know what you were supposed to do with them, so I didn’t have thoughts as specific as wanting to be molested. Odd as it sounds, I recall fantasizing about holding onto the legs of women, around the calfs or ankles, while they tried to walk.

I’m not exactly sure what I found erotic about that at the time, but to this day, I’m still a leg man. :slight_smile:

I have always wanted to do it with all of my female teachers, even relatively unattractive older overweight women. There were only 2 teachers in my middle or high school that I didn’t want to do it with, one was in her 70s and one was morbidly obese. The rest . . . I wanted to do it with them all. Something about the teacher fantasy was so awesome. To this day I focus my internet pornography quests on teacher-looking older women, I can’t help it. Something about the postition of power . . .

I know exactly what you are talking about . . . when I was in 1st grade I was really attracted to my teacher who was really hot. One day in class the clasp to her bra broke and she had to run to the bathroom to somehow correct it . . . I wasn’t really sure what was going on, but I was really aroused and fantasized about that moment even years later. I didn’t even get to see her breasts or anything, but there was something about the fact that she was embarassed and it was for a somewhat sexually-related reason that really aroused me. In 1st grade! Seems weird to think about having fantasies before you even understood what it meant.

Oh, please! “Diana”?

I do share a first name and a profession with Mr. Anka, but similarities end there. Well, almost.

When I was about 13 I had the biggest crush on the lifeguard at the country club. I went there damn near EVERY DAY for the entire summer. Some days, it was just me and him. I’d swim around the pool, watching him watch me. It was HOT!

I also used to babysit for a very rich couple who lived near us. They’d go out at night and come back all drunk and he’d drive me home. I always felt an extreme sexual tension on those drives home. I would think about him pulling the car over and … well I’m not sure, but definitely some kissing or something going on. I wonder if he was thinking what I was thinking…going after the 13 year old babysitter!!! Scandalous!