After reading about the Florida case involving a pretty darn cute woman and a 14 yr-old boy involving freely given blowjobs and a few sessions of the ol’ in-out-in-out…I thought back to my days as a horny lad.
Yes, as an adult I can see the criminal aspect of these adults preying on confused, hormonal minds and how that is a no-no. As a parent I can project all of the fears that come with sex at such a young age and its all-too-real repercussions (STD’s, pregnancy). And, to add, I was touched in an inappropriate way by my Boy Scout leader once…which was a very uncomfortable situation to be in, to say the least.
Aside from all of that…Boy, do I remember some older-than-me hotties that I just HOPED would have molested me. (and yes, I recognize that if I was gay the Scout leader might…well, actually not. I’m sure I would have wanted a better looking man even in that circumstance)
In Colorado it was illegal to leave an under-12 year-old alone in the home. But to play it safe, my mom had babysitters for me until I was officially 13. (Maybe she just feared I would have burned the place down). But at age 12 I had hormones and a fucking hot babysitter. Just, just, just, just damned good looking. And 18; she just graduated from HS and was attending community college. I didn’t know exactly what she could do to me, but if she had done anything, I would have been ALL for it. Repeatedly.
Then there was my Homeroom teacher in Junior High.
And the next door neighbor.
And the lifeguard at the summer pool.
And the older sister of every single one of my friends that had older sisters.
And a few of their moms.
And even a few of my cousins…Aaaahhh…Caroline, I’ve never seen you since, but how you played a part in my naughty thoughts before bed for many a year.
From 12 to 15 I would have dearly loved to have been touched, fondled or what-have-you by a good portion of the women I met in the 12 to 40 age range (above that started to approach my mom and that was just eeewwwwww).
I was lucky enough to start having sex by a month before I turned 16. Wow…I just realized that I am approaching the 20-yr anniversary of that. Anyways, from that moment on I still fantisized about older women, but I realized that none would have me, so I stuck with my age group and a lot of begging.
I question how traumatic it would have been to me if I had been sexual from a younger age. Probably only if an STD or pregnancy had happened…Which is exactly why we protect our children from just such an occurance.
Is it different in women? Would there be STDs, pregnancy AND emotional scars to deal with once older? I really can’t see how I, as a guy, would have had any emotional problems from screwing my babysitter. It would probably be something that to this day I would be fantasizing about occasionally.
-Tcat