It is interesting to to note that some, not all, of the “cool kids” I knew went on to do nothing huge with their lives. In reality, though, who does? Most of us grow up, get married or obtain lifetime SOs, have kids, pay our bills, and trudge into jobs that, if the truth be known, we’d really rather not go to. Although, there are some very lucky people who love what they do for a living and look forward to going to work.
Life after high school and college must be a huge let down to those folks who “had it all” in high school. The popularity, the cool clothes, the cool cars, etc. I had to work for everything I had and drove a POS beater. I run into folks from high school very, very occasionally. Some of them “cool kids”, some of them the “tweeners” (like me, they moved between the different cliques, but didn’t “hang out” with them on a regular basis), the jocks, the nerds, the druggies, etc. Most have done nothing more exciting than I have with my life. Some led some screwed up lives, some succeeded. Most have moved on and left high school waaaaaaaay behind, thank goodness. Others seem bitter that their real lives didn’t turn out the way they thought they should have. They didn’t understand why they weren’t top of the heap/coolest anymore. It’s quite a wake-up call to go into the big, bad, cold world, I guess.
Ah, taxes completely, completely done and refund should arrive around the 2nd. Sooner, would be nice.
I’m still a “tweener” I guess. I move among various social circles. My next door neighbor is young (turning 30), but he and his SO love to have my husband and I over for parties or to go boating with us. I am just as comfortable with older folks and have no problems in relating to them. I have other friends or aquaintances closer in age to me, some just as old, some in their 60s, some in their mid-thirties, some in their 20s. I move between all of them with ease. All come from different backgrounds. I love it, there’s much to learn from all of them. Plus, most of them are just plain fun to be around.
Well, I think I’m gonna watch some television now. I have to trudge back to work tomorrow.