We were both 17.
At my house.
No
No
Yes. Wrong person.
**How old were you/your partner? ** I was 20, she was 29.
Where did you do it? my bedroom in the basement of my aunt’s house.
Did/do you love that person? Yes.
Were you married, engaged, etc.? Dating.
Are you still with that person? We have been married almost 7 years now.
Do you have any regrets? Nope.
How old were you/your partner?
I was 20/He was 22
Did you love that person?
Yes, I did.
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
We were married.
Are you still with that person?
We divorced after 7 years of marriage. It was amicable as far divorces go. We parted on relatively good terms and even tried the “friends” thing for a while . We haven’t been in touch, though, since he moved west and I moved east.
Regrets?
I don’t regret the time I was with him, as it had a large part in making me the well-adjusted (heh) individual I am today. I do regret getting married too young though. If we had waited a few years, we probably would have realized we were **too ** different to make it work.
My first time? easy question…
My 11’th birthday
and my Mom was 34… of course I love her, she’s my Mom. and of course I’m kidding… 
but I can dream 
How old were you/your partner?
I was 19, she was 18. It was both our first time.
Where did you do it (i.e. your house/apartment, parent’s house, dorm room, car, etc.)?
Dorm room.
Did/do you love that person?
Yes, I did love her, but that eventually faded.
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
Neither, but we dated for 5 years and lived together for 2 before we broke up.
Are you still with that person?
No. Broke up and started dating my wife (who I was already close friends with) about 4 months later…perfect timing!
Do you have any regrets (i.e. about the person, the timing, not waiting longer, waiting too long :eek: etc.)?
No…it was the right time for me. We were very good for each other in the beginning but had very different life goals, and drifted apart. Wouldn’t change the initial encounters though.
After reading more of the respones, I should clarify…thought the original was whether we eventually got married or engaged to that person…
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
We had been dating about 4 months at the time.
How old were you/your partner?
I was 18, he was 15.
Where did you do it (i.e. your house/apartment, parent’s house, dorm room, car, etc.)?
His bedroom.
Did/do you love that person?
At the time, yes.
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
No, but he’d asked me once. I’d laughed (note the ages, here). We’d been going out for a good long time, though.
Are you still with that person?
No–we broke up two months later, and I’m now married to someone else. We’re still pretty good friends, though, when we get the chance to talk.
Do you have any regrets (i.e. about the person, the timing, not waiting longer, waiting too long etc.)?
The only regrets I have are:
1.) That the condom broke, and I wasn’t on birth control. That could’ve really, really sucked a whole lot worse than it actually did.
2.) The breakup sucked. A lot. In retrospect, we probably shouldn’t have ever dated. But the sex. . .okay, well, the sex was kind-of shitty. We were both virgins. But I don’t regret it, at any rate. Just. . .wow, the breakup sucked.
How old were you/your partner?
I was 19, she was 18.
Where did you do it?
On the couch in her parent’s living room, while her parents were taking a nap. Yikes! Hey, it wasn’t my idea of a good location.
Did/do you love that person?
Yep. She was my first love. I do still love her, a bit, despite all the crap she’s put me through since. I’ve never understood how it’s possible to stop loving someone. I think it’s possible to absolutely loathe the person, but still love them.
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
No, but we’d been dating for about two years, off and on, even when she moved about 3 hours away from me.
Are you still with that person?
Less than three years later she left me for my best friend, who then joined the army to get away from her. Now she’s married to my diametric opposite, and they’re busy driving each other (and my son) insane.
Do you have any regrets?
Despite the fact that it ultimately produced my son, whom I love dearly, she’s the only one I regret sleeping with. I would’ve been much better off if we had broken up, permanently, when she moved away two months after we met.
Looking back, I’ve realized that the only reason she was with me was to get out of her parent’s house.
How old were you/your partner?
I was 12, they were 12, 13, and 14 (it’s a LONG story)
Where did you do it ?
Back yard of their house
Did/do you love that person?
Wasn’t Sure
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
No
Are you still with that person?
No
Do you have any regrets?
No
How old were you/your partner? I was 19, she was 18
Where did you do it (i.e. your house/apartment, parent’s house, dorm room, car, etc.)? Her bedroom at her parents house. They were on vacation for a week or so. It was a good week.
Did/do you love that person? I did
Were you married, engaged, etc.? Dating steadily and exclusively
Are you still with that person? Just as friends
**Do you have any regrets ** Other than breaking up with her, none at all. She actually burned a CD for the occasion, and needless to say, there are a few songs which are indelibly linked to “Good Times” in my mind.
How old were you/your partner?
i was 19, he was 18.
Where did you do it (i.e. your house/apartment, parent’s house, dorm room, car, etc.)?
my dorm room, i think it was a saturday morning.
Did/do you love that person?
absolutely, and i still do. he was/is my first (and as of yet only) bf.
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
no, we had been together since nov. and it was in april (on my dad’s bday, actually).
Are you still with that person?
yes
Do you have any regrets?
none.
How old were you/your partner? I was 14 (freshman) and she was 17 (a senior and a cheerleader)
Where did you do it? Dark room of the high school’s photo lab
Did/do you love that person? I loved her at least twice a day for about 6 months 
Were you married, engaged, etc.? Nope
Are you still with that person? Nope. I have no idea where she is.
Do you have any regrets (i.e. about the person, the timing, not waiting longer, waiting too long :eek: etc.)? No regrets, it was great.
How old were you/your partner?
I was 16, he was either 16 or 17
Where did you do it (i.e. your house/apartment, parent’s house, dorm room, car, etc.)?
At my house, on the living room floor
Did/do you love that person?
I did at the time
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
No, we had been dating for about a year though. We were each other’s firsts
Are you still with that person?
Hell no.
Do you have any regrets (i.e. about the person, the timing, not waiting longer, waiting too long etc.)?
I wish he would have been more willing. It was 99% my idea to have sex. And also I wish I hadn’t dated him for so long and put up with so much crap from him. Ah, well, you live and learn.
b]How old were you/your partner?**
I was 17, she was 20
Where did you do it?
In her apartment
Did/do you love that person?
No, I was intoxicated
Were you married, engaged, etc.?
No, but we had known each other a long time. our mothers had been friends for many years.
Are you still with that person?
I was never with her again. My choice.
**Do you have any regrets (i.e. about the person, the timing, not waiting longer, waiting too long etc.)?**When I got a bit older, I realized that I missed out on a pretty good situation. But I was young and foolish.
So, yeah, kind of…
Same for me, only he was 17.
If we want to count my first time as a consentual participant:
I was 16, he was 18.
I loved him as much as my 16 year-old brain could.
We were dating.
I’ve gone through several boyfriends since him & now married to a different guy.
Nope, no regrets. Well, only that he was absolute crap. But I didn’t know that at the time. Looking back, it was all so… clinical. My main memories are of the smell of condoms and his very red and abundant chest hair.