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Old 08-05-2003, 02:22 PM
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Poll - Do women like it when men "finish" in their mouth?

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Old 08-05-2003, 02:31 PM
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Yup. In every instance I've ever heard of, he'd prefer it that way, and, from a pratical standpoint, it's certainly a good way to dispose of the stuff (providing you swallow). Plus...just yes.
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Old 08-05-2003, 02:37 PM
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I love it, but I believe I am in the minority.
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Old 08-05-2003, 02:37 PM
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My wife hates it when I do. Everytime she tries to 'splain something to me, she takes so long to get to the point that I end up finishing it for her. It really pisses her off.



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Old 08-05-2003, 02:43 PM
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Lauralittlepony - How YOU doin'?
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Old 08-05-2003, 03:36 PM
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Omnipresent: It would be uncouth of me to describe my mood on this board. Hormones!
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Old 08-05-2003, 03:41 PM
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Omnipresent: It would be uncouth of me to describe my mood on this board. Hormones!

Wow, my girlfriend is going through the same thing right now!!! Now THAT'S freaky!!!!!!!!
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Old 08-05-2003, 04:19 PM
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When I fall in love and get married, I will want him to finish in my mouth. I think it is part of acceptance and love.

I don't do anything that would cause him to want to finish in my mouth because I don't believe that stuff should be done outside of marriage (or at least a long term commited relationship)

Omnipresent: Be a man and keep your hormones under control!
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Old 08-05-2003, 04:27 PM
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If my hormones were meant to be controlled, they wouldn't run so rampant. Eh, Omnipresent?
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Old 08-05-2003, 04:33 PM
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It's all dependent upon the person. With my current BF, it's sort of something I prefer, and something I enjoy.
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Old 08-05-2003, 05:26 PM
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[gloat]My boyfriend and I both love it when I "finish" in his mouth, regardless of how many times I "finish" before we both fall asleep.[/gloat]
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Old 08-05-2003, 05:40 PM
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I love it, but only within a long term loving committed relationship. Come to think of it, I don't have any kind of sex unless that's the case.
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Old 08-06-2003, 01:39 PM
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If my hormones were meant to be controlled, they wouldn't run so rampant. Eh, Omnipresent?

You know it Pony
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Old 08-06-2003, 02:00 PM
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I love it, but I believe I am in the minority.
You are a model for all! I hope others will learn from your example
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Old 08-06-2003, 02:19 PM
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I can't finish there.... well, maybe, but it's very, very difficult.
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Old 08-06-2003, 05:12 PM
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You are a model for all! I hope others will learn from your example
I try to set a good standard!

Dan. . . never mind. I don't want to cross over into Penthouse material.
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Old 08-06-2003, 05:20 PM
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I don't mind it...but get this. One boyfriend I had REFUSED to finish in my mouth. Said it was rude.
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Old 08-06-2003, 05:55 PM
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For what its worth, my last SO began refusing to allow said finishing to happen when I took up smoking again. Apparently nicotine significantly alters the, uh, quality of the... finishing agent.

LauraLittlePony... I wouldn't DREAM of controlling your hormones...
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Old 08-06-2003, 06:02 PM
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I wouldn't know.
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Old 08-06-2003, 06:23 PM
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Re: Poll - Do women like it when men "finish" in their mouth?

Yes - mouth and...other places.
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Old 08-06-2003, 06:28 PM
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I will confirm that smoking does vastly affect taste. Absolutely nasty!
Non-smokers, sure. Smokers? Much less inclined.
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Old 08-06-2003, 06:45 PM
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A college roommate told me she preferred just to swallow it-- just straight on down the ol' gullet, less taste, less mess...

She also told me she preferred to be completely shaved down there, never wore underwear (she liked to keep it airy) and her favorite position was doggy-style...Hey, maybe she was trying to drop some subtle--
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Old 08-06-2003, 06:58 PM
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ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew.
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Old 08-06-2003, 07:02 PM
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I don't think I'd personally call it rude, but I'd feel more than a little awkward about doing it without having a good idea of whether the other person wanted it. Can you imagine finishing there only to get a reation along the lines of "wtf are you DOING"?
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Old 08-06-2003, 07:07 PM
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This varies completely by individual. Some women love it, others hate, hate, hate it. They hate the taste, or the texture (even I have to admit the texture leaves a lot to be desired), or just the idea of it. Other women don't much care one way or the other.

If you don't yet know which camp your partner falls into, give her a little warning. If you can't do that, let her pull back or not according to her preference. Do not just pull out of her mouth while spurting. Semen up the nose burns with the fire of a thousands suns, and the pain lingers for a long, long time. Trust me.
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Old 08-06-2003, 07:12 PM
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Some women hate it. Some women deal with it. Some women LOVE it. I am a card-carrying member of the last group.

In fact, I might be the president of that group.
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Old 08-06-2003, 07:33 PM
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Rather have it in my mouth than in my eyelashes.
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Old 08-08-2003, 02:32 AM
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I love giving oral sex on my boyfriend; it really turns me on. But I don't like a guys "finishing" in my mouth. I think it's gross. The taste and texture is icky. I prefer he finish inside me I like that feeling.
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Old 08-08-2003, 08:40 AM
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I will confirm that smoking does vastly affect taste. Absolutely nasty!
Non-smokers, sure. Smokers? Much less inclined.
Yet another reason for me to quit smoking...

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Old 08-12-2003, 06:08 PM
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I love it ... it's very intimate and I feel like I'm doing something nice for him ... in return for all the nice things he does for me!

Of course if he wants to 'finish' somewhere else, that's totally fine too ...

I've always swallowed - I mean really, why WOULDN'T I???
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Old 08-12-2003, 06:40 PM
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AWWwwww, DAMN!

I just got around to reading this thread... LauraLittlePony
and bittersweet's answers had me needing a cold shower... then I read PiscesPrincesss' missive... now I just need a towel.









did I say that out loud?
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Old 08-12-2003, 11:19 PM
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Love it. Knowing someone thoughly includes knowing what they taste like. Its probably a good third of the fun of giving blow jobs in the first place. Okay, maybe only a quarter...the other parts are pretty fun too. The prize in the bottom of the cracker jack box, perhaps.
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Old 08-12-2003, 11:47 PM
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The first time I wanted to tell my boyfriend I loved him was after he finished in my mouth. (I was uncertain about saying it though, but it came out the next day. ) So yes, I like it because it's extremely intimate. It's nice to taste him, and it's like you're part of his orgasm (which...well, duh, you're a part of making it happen, but it's like you are partially experiencing it with him). There are times when it makes me gag, and those are less fun, but generally I'm a fan.
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Old 08-13-2003, 12:27 AM
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I hate it - the smell, the quantity, the look, the texture - it just oogs me out. I'm trying to learn how to a "deals with it" and maybe even a "doesn't mind it" person, but *shudder*.
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Old 08-13-2003, 02:06 AM
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Apart from the obvious place, where else is there for a guy to 'end'?

I dont see why, if you're willing to create the 'need for an end' with your mouth, why you shouldn't be willing to go the extra mile and drink up.

theres nothing better than finishing the event off with the 'stream of success' that is creates.
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Old 08-13-2003, 03:04 AM
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Well, it's not exactly my first choice of refreshing beverage, but I certainly don't mind it. In the right setting, it can be very arousing and intimate. But it's not something I do for the taste, you know?

Of course, for the first three months my SO and I were active in that arena, I was getting over a hell of an illness that screwed with my gag reflex (lots of vomiting). I couldn't eat Chinese food, let alone swallow semen. That was a very bland few months. . .
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Old 08-13-2003, 03:09 AM
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I couldn't eat Chinese food, let alone swallow semen.
Erg. I'm glad I don't like Chinese food anyway...
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Old 08-13-2003, 08:46 AM
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I like it, yep.

And the old saw "Vegetarians Taste Better" really holds true. (And yes, smokers taste worse.)

'Course, there are other places I'd prefer that he finish, but hey, why not?
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Old 08-13-2003, 09:10 AM
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The idea of my bf "finishing" in my mouth grosses me out a little. So I've never let hm do it. I just know I'd hate the taste and end up throwing up anyway! lol
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Old 08-13-2003, 09:24 AM
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I've only let my husband "finish" in my mouth twice. The first was to see what it was like, that was disgusting and I didn't do it again for a long time. The second time, he had changed his diet to fruit and veggies for a week, that was just ok. Don't think I'll let that happen again if I can help it. I like to go down on him, but I like to have him finish inside me better
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Old 08-13-2003, 09:42 AM
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Ok, I guess I now have a question for the men reading this thread.... If a woman *does* allow a man to finish in her mouth, does it then matter to him what she does with the final product? I mean, is it compulsory that she swallow or is it acceptable if she gracefully disentangles herself to take care of disposing said matter in the lavatory?

See, because I've always been an avid giver of oral sex and don't mind in the least letting him wind up where he started. However, actually following through with swallowing makes me vomit. So, with this method, I've at least never had any complaints. What say y'all?
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Old 08-13-2003, 09:44 AM
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Doesn't matter one iota to me what she does with the stuff. All I know is that I'm done with it. It's hers to keep, like a souvenir, a memento, to love and cherish and toss into the trash.
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Old 08-13-2003, 09:49 AM
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OK, when I first read the OP, I thought it meant finishing after intercourse. Don't know why, but I think I've seen so many 'spit or swallow' threads that I was hoping for something original.

So if I may do a slight hijack- how many women would let a man finish in your mouth after intercourse?

My wife and I did this once and it was me who didn't like it. Seemed a bit too complicated with timing and changing positions, but...

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Old 08-13-2003, 10:02 AM
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Ok, I guess I now have a question for the men reading this thread.... If a woman *does* allow a man to finish in her mouth, does it then matter to him what she does with the final product?
I do not really mind, although I do admit to seeing a little trickle from the lips to be...intense

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So if I may do a slight hijack- how many women would let a man finish in your mouth after intercourse?
OK, guy chipping in - we do this a lot, and both love it, although it does have to be timed right. MsUnwrittenNocturne enjoys how we both taste, so it works for us
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Old 08-13-2003, 10:11 AM
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I don't mind it...but get this. One boyfriend I had REFUSED to finish in my mouth. Said it was rude.
This is what my husband says. He says he feels like it's disrepectful to do that, so he has a hard time doing it.

I mean finishing.

I mean finishing there.

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Old 08-13-2003, 10:32 AM
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OK.. as a man myself who says.. "I don't want to because it is rude"

I am lying... I only say that because chances are good that she will want to kiss me afterwards.. and I am just not down with that..

btw... we don't really care with what you do with it... we just came.. nothing else matters at this point..

and men.. drink pineapple juice.. ; )
I have been told that works...
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Old 08-13-2003, 10:37 AM
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Am I the only one who, after seeing the responses of some of the people, has looked for a "WWW" button below their name or gone to the photo thread?
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Old 08-13-2003, 11:13 AM
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Yea, I was going to say that, I REALLY enjoy kissing my women. It's a VERY sensual thing for us.

So, frankly, if I know that "stuff" is, or was, in there; sorry, it's time for her to hit the Listerine before I go tonguing again.

That's encroaching a little too close to "c" sucking (even though it's my own) and, well, it's not for me.

Call me conservative.

God bless her, she doesn't mind kissing me after I've "travelled south" but then, I'm not holding a teaspoon of tapioca pudding in there.
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Old 08-13-2003, 11:16 AM
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OK.. as a man myself who says.. "I don't want to because it is rude"

I am lying... I only say that because chances are good that she will want to kiss me afterwards.. and I am just not down with that..
I was wondering if this thread was going to take this tangent. Guys, is this generally how you feel about kissing your girl afterwards?

Personally, snowballing has always kinda intrigued me, but I haven't been with a partner I felt comfortable discussing it (takes a while to get to that level of kink).

Girls, how would you feel if your partner indicated this was something he might want to try?
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Old 08-13-2003, 11:53 AM
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Am I the only one who, after seeing the responses of some of the people, has looked for a "WWW" button below their name or gone to the photo thread?
No, you are absolutely the only one who has ever done a twisted, stalker-esque thing like that.
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