My Personal life Has been shot to hell and back, for nothing to do with any of my actions. If it was I could understand and not be too bitter about it. but as it stands my lovely girlfriends 15 year old Brother has managed to FUCK the lot up.
Backstory: Gf and I planning on moving in together, flat (apartment) hunting, finding a place and decided that thats what we want. peaceful and joyful, everything going in the right direction.
The Brother: where do I fucking start!! been to court on assault, petty theft, handling stolen goods… and the english court system has let him go, just an order to attend a youth offending meeting every week. He’s not afraid of the cops and laughs at them, has no respect for his mother and siblings, breaks the police curfew imposed on him. a right pain in the ass but at the time a tolerable one. has no willingness to appologise and reform his actions, period, paragraph, end of statement.
The Problem
her borther steals a car and writes it and another car off. he gets cought by the owner. the owner then tells him that he has to cough up two and a half grand in a couple of weeks because his car was uninsured and a wreck. if he fails to do this : broken legs and retribution on the house, brick through the window etc. my Gf being the one who would like to solve all the problems wants to move back into her mom’s house to help, and maintain peace, this could be a year or 10 depending on what happens.
The Crux
by her moving back to her mothers, I no longer have overnight rights, by her mothers decree… we have been living at each other place now for 2 months and I have grown quite accustomed to waking up next to her and she to me. now a big fucking backwards step in the relationship and I cant push the issue because of the delicate nature of the ASSwipe (brother) situation.
I’ve now had to let the owners know that we won’t be moving in, My landlord that I 'm not moving out, send back the surprise furniture I had purchased as a new house prezzie for us. grief, fuckloads of heartache, Some money in my case. I still love her and will stand by her. but between the asswipe and mothers decree, I’m pissed off, ready to cuff him myself and drag his ass down to the station book him and slam the damn cell closed and lose the key on the way out the door.
aside:
to top it all of my father, last week, has just been diagnosed with inoperable cancer with a 25% of survival. more Stress
FUCKING GREAT :mad:
sorry if this doesn’t fit the pit criteria, it s a first post here