haze, that’s awful. What a lousy way to leave…
It’s farking cold here in the Land of Bus today, 22 degrees amurkin, but it’s going to get warmer later - all the way up to 29. :rolleyes:
I offered to be a stopwatch guy at a girls track meet today at one of our high schools. I’ll go, but dammit, a couple athletic directors need to re-think if this meet needs to happen today or not, ya know?
(Note: just found out it’s an indoors meet. yay!)
BionicTigs - You are doing a LOT to discourage me from listening to the Bone Doc when she talks to me about that procedure. I’m kind of getting to like this more or less constant to hammering knee pain I live with now. It’s comforting. 
Some drama in Casa Bus yesterday. Not revolving around any of us directly - but a friend, no two friends of the Wife. H & G have been, um “carrying on” for a couple years now, I think even more. They used to be cow-workers, but are at different places now.
Anyhoo, this is only an interesting piece of news when you consider that while G is a nice single guy (in fact, lives right near our own haze - and BTW maa’m, he’s not a bad looking guy, makes a nice dollar, and as you’ll see very soon - is available), dear H is married with a 9 year old daughter.
Well, night before last, the husband sat her down, said he’d known all about this for a couple years now. He’s in the ‘issuing demands’ stage, where she has to quit her job, disassociate from all her friends (i.e. the Wife), etc…
All very messy. My take is that the guy’s known for longer than that, as these two haven’t even pretended to be discreet. I mean these two have traveled on vacation together, spent nights at his place or downtown - she always giving the husband some lame excuse that I told the Wife no one in his right mind would buy.
Husband is making all the noises about going to see a counselor, blah blah. From the tone of his demands, it sounds more to me like he’s making her more dependent on him cutting her off from her medium/large $$ job, and her support (friends) so that it’s easier to hammer her in a divorce.
I am, and have been since I heard word one of this a few years back, scrupulously NON-INVOLVED. NO advice, no support, but no condemnation either. Their lives, her family - feel free to screw it up without my help. But now - on the basis of the Wife telling H what I thought husband was up to, I have H writing and asking me for my ‘wisdom’.
I told her, she shoulda asked me that 3 years ago, I had some that might have made a difference then. Now all I can offer is “get thee a really good lawyer”.