Sometimes change is what’s needed. Change what? Lots of things to choose from. Anything from hairstyles to location. I’ve noticed women change hairstyles when things aren’t going to their satisfaction. Men change vehicles. The worse the problem the bigger the change. I’m looking to make a radical change asap. (total lifestyle and location)
Friends.
And lots of alcohol.
How old are you? I ask because I’ve been in that boat, too. Back in my 20’s, I had a good friend that had a gorgeous girlfriend. I went out of town for aboyut a month and when I returned she called me and said that they had broken up and she needed to talk. One thing almost led to another but I told her I couldn’t really be her boyfriend because i felt like I was betraying my friend. She told me I wasn’t and she’d talk to him about ME because she wanted to be with ME. I told her not to but she did anyway. my friend was really upset, but told me he wasn’t standing in my way.
So I dated her…and fell in love, and we even started talking about getting married. Then she dumped me. Not even a clean break either, she just said “Heres your stuff, sorry, I found someone else.”
Man, I was crushed. I think I went insane for awhile. But I had a good friend of mine living with at the time, and she kept my head together. Plus I got really freakin’ drunk a lot. It took time, but eventually i got over it. You will too.