Okay, it’s a pretty typical question, but I’m kinda curious about something else in relation to it.
Do you consider oral sex to be sex?
Now most people have pretty come to a decision on this. Personally, I don’t. I’m still a virgin, but I LOVE to go down on the ladies. Although I do recognize it is a very personal and intimate act, I still view it more as foreplay, and although I have been willing to give it up to a few girls, I’d perform oral on a lot more women than I’d consider having sex with. I just view it differently, that’s all. Now, here’s the question that never seems to come up in conversations on this topic, but it’s something that popped into my head. If you do consider oral sex sex:
Do you consider hand jobs/fingering sex?
If you feel oral is sex, why not these? Everyone seems adamant about oral, but no one ever really mentions mutual masterbation. If Clinton just got a hand job from Monica, do you think it would have been that big a deal? Both involve genital contact, so why’s one considered bigger than the other?
Do you prefer oral sex to straight vaginal sex?
Personally, I don’t have any input here, but I know a lot of women who claim they can’t get off to vaginal sex, but when it comes to one of the other, some prefer oral, and some go vaginal. And I know some guys who would much rather get head than jackhammer away on a woman, so I’m just curious to what your takes our.