I was just watching the Roseanne talk show, ( yea? and I suppose you always do something exciting when you are home alone at 2 AM?)and she had this kid on who is now numbered among my personal heros. His name is Jared, and he has been leading a fight against the Orange County school board against their refusal to sanction a school club he wishes to start called " The Gay-Straight Alliance “, to promote communication between people of different backgrounds and orientations. He is 16, gay, and, so he said, a virgin. ( I tend to doubt anyone who says that at 16, gay or straight, particularly when they are leading a crusade for sexual freedom ) This kid ROCKS! He was witty, intelegent and not afraid to stand his ground angainst tough questions. ( As tough as they get on Roseanne, anyway.) His club is now meeting under a court ordered injunction, as the fundies try to rally around and get their very un-Christian hate regulations enforced by the courts. Roseanne asked him why he didn’t just change the name of the club, because the school board had indicated that if he called it the “Club of Tolerance” or some such, that would be OK. His response? " Nobody should have to be tolerated.” I STOOD AND CHEERED!!! THIS is the hope for the future of America. I do have one question for Y’all though.
While watching this kid, what kept going through my mind was a Homer Simpson quote:" Marge, you know I like my TV loud, my beer cold, and my homosexuals flaaaaaaming!" This kid made RuPaul look like George W Bush. ( well, not quite, but his actions and manerisms were very RuPaulian ) I ask you folks because you are presumeably more in tune with the gay community than I. ( And I hate to put it that way. It violates one of my fundamental principals:" There is no THEM, only people." There is great danger in lumping people into homogionus groups and then ascribing qualities to the group as a whole. It ignores the fact that groups are just made up of a bunch of individuals ) Let me state that I have no beef with people being who they are. None. ( like a guy who calls himself “Weirddave” has any leg to stand on when criticizing a persons manerisms :rolleyes: ) It is not a criticism. Jared also said he liked to perform for people, and sing to groups. I understand that performers must posess a degree of flamboyance. My question is on of curiosity, not condemnation.
What is up with those extremely flamboyent homosexuals that you see? Is this just who these people are? Or are they hiding insecurity, pain and a lifetime of being treated badly behind a facade` of flamboyance? It’s probobly a bit of all three. Again,I am not criticizing or condeming. I am trying to understand. Any insights you could give me would be greatly apreciated. Oh, and I am not a shill for conformity. I hate conformity. It’s just that many of the manerisms and behaviors seem SO over the top that I’m wondering if I’m unaware of a dynamic going on here. Thank you for your replies.
Oh, and Esprix, welcome back from the middle ages