Fortunately,Omniscient, our son is old enough to take the garbage out.
Hey, GREAT NEWS!! He actually got up without wincing, and he’s going to play poker!! Now maybe he can poke me…
The part where you didn’t say whether Mr. M was involved, or not. I tend to think of toys as (solo) substitutes, rather than supplements, since it’s been about 20 years since I’ve been with a woman who was interested in using them while making love. Sorry. Just trying to help.
The abstinence helps make it more powerful. 
Well, Dave, I’d think that would be your ASSumption, not any omission on Maureen’s part. Even when used with a partner, toys just don’t get it. It would be like you jerking off while a woman holds and kisses you…knocks a little of the edge off, but it’s nothing at all like actually having sex.
Actually, I think it would be even more frustrating than using the toys alone. I mean, that stuff’s usually just foreplay, but now that’s all there is. You’re all dressed up with no place to go, so to speak.
Evil Captor, I’m probably unsual for a female, but I have a sex drive that rivals most males. I’m able to do it many times in a row and I’ll bet that I can outlast most males. 
My boyfriend doesn’t get it up as often as me so I sometimes have to resort to masturbation. ::sigh::
I generally have to have 3 orgasms in a row before I relieve my “tension” but I’m able to come pretty quickly, so it doesn’t take too long. If I’m really horny, only a few seconds each one. I’m also lucky to be able to achieve orgasm without any sort of “stimulation.”
I noticed that when I went on birth control pills for a little while, my sex drive dropped to practically nill. Maybe I have hormones mixed up somewhere?
Maureen, that was a Seinfeld reference in case you missed it, in which case your comment about your son is pretty distrubing.
Poor dear… I have the opposite problem in fact… well it’s not much of a problem now but my latest ex well he was a sex fiend… let’s just say at least 3 times a day if he stayed over which was fairly often, plus waking me up several times a night (I get cranky when woken up and unless it’s done with style you ain’t getting any that night) and on top of that (yes this gets better) according to the roomies when he stayed over, even getting lots of sex he was still masturbating in our bathroom.
That relationship ended pretty quickly because I realized he needed a mommy he could fuck after he burst into tears when I told him to go home because he had overstayed his welcome that week.
My sex drive is fairly decent for a girl I think. I like sex. I like it a lot, but not that much. It’s been over a month since that relationship ended and I still feel like I can wait on sex for a little longer. Of course the guys (roomies) usually can tell when I get horny and out come the jokes about me and doorknobs…
I get really REALLY antsy after about three or four days. I start randomly thrusting in bed, it’s so bad. If Bailie got injured such that we had to go two weeks without, I think my postcount would rise exponentially (to replace the thing that would learn to stop rising at all for that duration)…
Or I’d start on that book I’ve kept in the back of my mind for the past three years.
Maybe both.
Then are the horny people posting here?
oops
-k
I SO did not need to know this.
BTW, dude, your MOM posts here! HA HA!!!
Sounds like a “Seinfeld” Episode where George couldn’t get sex or something, so he began putting all his energy into study, books and learning. Pretty soon he was reading advanced Chemstry books and talking like a very smart person.
Then he had sex again and turned into plain old George.
Davebear ; I SAID I was sorry…it had been a long frustrating night.
Omniscient ; Yes, I did miss it, sorry to you, too…and yes, that would be a TRULY disturbing reference to my first born male child.
On a happier note, alll…I will be going to work smiling tomorrow. Albeit duck-walking.
Okay, so this there’s bit of stereotypical “knowledge” that women have a reduced drive for sex, compared to men. I am more and more convinced this is folklore at best; note that in past times, people have sometimes thought the exact opposite, i.e. that women were driven by lust and unable to restrain themselves as well as the more “saintly” gender of men. I believe this idea–that women are less sexually driven than men–is a relatively recent change in (at least) Western culture.
Why do I think this? Because of the girlfriends I have had, I’d say only one in eight or so was conspicuously less horny than I am. I’d say one in three or four was at least somewhat hornier on a day to day basis, including my present gf, who is one sexed-up hottie. Oh man the sex is good. Lucky for me, she’s patient with me that I only really want it 5-6 times per week. She’s also terrific in many other ways, luckily for me. I do my best to take care of her… 
Also, I am one of those guys who has counted a number of women among his closest friends. My female friends have talked about being horny and thinking about sex more than almost any of my male friends.
My feeling is that Western culture (among others) for so long has taught women that expressing themselves openly is NOT ok, whether it be as artists, writers, musicians, activists, or as sexual beings, or what have you, that society as whole and men in particular STILL have very wrong ideas about what women think and feel and are capable of.
I’m not saying that I think women are more highly sexed than men (thereby reverting to attitudes held in Medieval times).
I am saying that women’s interest in sex has been grossly underreported. 
Knorf
Oh, and congrats to Maureen for the end of her drought.
I always feel pangs of sympathy for women who express sexual frustration. I’m glad you’re no long one of them!
Best,
Knorf
I’m quite in agreement with that. I have a much more active sex drive than my boyfriend most of the time, as well as a few female friends. It seems to be more of a cultural thing in the repression of interest in sex than a biological one, at least IME.
Kitty
Who is trying to repress it?!?! Let me just get my hands on those nitwits. I for one, am trying to ENCOURAGE your interests.
Not that it gets me very far.
p.s. Please advise how best to encourage.