I made a new FWB recently. We didn’t always have sex, but we’ve been hanging out regularly for several months, and have become pretty good friends. A month ago, a bunch of her Warcraft friends flew into town, including one who’s professed his “love”, which, as far as I know, she turned down.
For an entire month, she disappeared, and said that her new internet friend was “possessive”, whiny, and couldn’t stand a single second without her presence, but when he left we could hang out again. I got ditched for a month, for a friend. I’m a friend, and right now, my feelings are just a bit hurt. I even invited the both of them out several times.
Now he’s gone, and we’re supposed to go back to normal, but this is really one of those classic “not really into you” signs that says move on, future headaches guaranteed.
Do you think I should go with my gut here or just talk it out with her?