It’s an unfinished attic, roughly pyramidal in shape, with lots of handy roof beams to attach things to and hang things from. The basement has no exposed beams and a low ceiling. My partner is 6’10", and when he raises his arms his total height is closer to 9 feet. I need a lot of ceiling height to suspend him by his wrists or ankles.
Gay male here. Love(d) it, both giving and receiving. I almost never had a bad experience giving, except for those who were not properly cleaned and prepped. The bad experiences receiving had to do with what I think of as selfish men who are able to keep going for like 20 or 30 minutes by some means that I don’t understand. Any time it goes on for more than 5 minutes, tops, then it just becomes an exercise in endurance of discomfort. I found that I could usually predict who was going to finish quickly vs. those who would go on and on. Large head relative to shaft thickness = finish quickly. Small head relative to shaft thickness = no quick finish. My theory is that the interior of the anal area is only stimulating to a head that can rub up against the sides in some way; also once the head is in, the relatively smaller shaft is less uncomfortable in the anal opening (so maybe it just seems like a shorter time).
As to why I like receiving, there is something about being filled up by another person. I suppose this may be something like what it is to be a woman; in any case, surrender to a caring partner is a strong turn-on to me.
This is all from years ago when I was playing around a lot. My partner and I don’t do this any more, mostly because it is just not a good fit physically for me to receive, and he is not interested in receiving at all. I miss it sometimes, but there are lots of compensations (in case you were worried)…
Roddy
Shig, I’m not sure how you intend this, but a comment anyway: I am of a generation that saw many friends succumb to AIDS. I would never wish to contract the condition.
Besides, latex gloves and condoms can have fetishistic value too.
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Straight male. Enjoy giving because my girlfriend loves receiving. She can orgasm from anal, which I confess, makes me feel great about what I bring to the game.
It’s fun, it’s got a naughtiness to it, and it’s fun.