Anal Sex

It’s an unfinished attic, roughly pyramidal in shape, with lots of handy roof beams to attach things to and hang things from. The basement has no exposed beams and a low ceiling. My partner is 6’10", and when he raises his arms his total height is closer to 9 feet. I need a lot of ceiling height to suspend him by his wrists or ankles.

I think I’ll start calling him my “owman.”

The doc didn’t give you a reach-around? What a tease!

Gay male here. Love(d) it, both giving and receiving. I almost never had a bad experience giving, except for those who were not properly cleaned and prepped. The bad experiences receiving had to do with what I think of as selfish men who are able to keep going for like 20 or 30 minutes by some means that I don’t understand. Any time it goes on for more than 5 minutes, tops, then it just becomes an exercise in endurance of discomfort. I found that I could usually predict who was going to finish quickly vs. those who would go on and on. Large head relative to shaft thickness = finish quickly. Small head relative to shaft thickness = no quick finish. My theory is that the interior of the anal area is only stimulating to a head that can rub up against the sides in some way; also once the head is in, the relatively smaller shaft is less uncomfortable in the anal opening (so maybe it just seems like a shorter time).

As to why I like receiving, there is something about being filled up by another person. I suppose this may be something like what it is to be a woman; in any case, surrender to a caring partner is a strong turn-on to me.

This is all from years ago when I was playing around a lot. My partner and I don’t do this any more, mostly because it is just not a good fit physically for me to receive, and he is not interested in receiving at all. I miss it sometimes, but there are lots of compensations (in case you were worried)…
Roddy

Well, that’s a relief! :wink:

Bi male. I enjoy topping (men and women), but my rule is that I only do anal if a condom’s involved.

Shig, I’m not sure how you intend this, but a comment anyway: I am of a generation that saw many friends succumb to AIDS. I would never wish to contract the condition.

Besides, latex gloves and condoms can have fetishistic value too.
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Straight male. Enjoy giving because my girlfriend loves receiving. She can orgasm from anal, which I confess, makes me feel great about what I bring to the game. :slight_smile:

It’s fun, it’s got a naughtiness to it, and it’s fun.

Intended as a smartass remark.