Another Dad is here freaking out!!!

[Diogenes_the_Cynic]

Not one person has slandered the girl or called her a slut. My concern would be that a 17-year-old boy would not appreciate the difficulty and vulnerability of her circumstances, not that he would be morally tainted.

[WhyNot]

@Diogenes the Cynic

Or maybe it should be phrased that he shouldn’t treat her as a slut or go into something like this looking only for sex (and for a 17-year-old that can be a tricky thing. A lot of young guys imagine they’re in love with the first girl they sleep with). I think it needs to be impressed on the kid that this is a family he’s getting involved with, not just a chick who might put out, and he needs to respect that.

Yes, that. Thanks!

[Cat_Fight]

@Diogenes the Cynic

Or maybe it should be phrased that he shouldn’t treat her as a slut or go into something like this looking only for sex (and for a 17-year-old that can be a tricky thing. A lot of young guys imagine they’re in love with the first girl they sleep with). I think it needs to be impressed on the kid that this is a family he’s getting involved with, not just a chick who might put out, and he needs to respect that.

Good point.

Also, if the boy’s sexually active, there’s always the chance he’s impregnated a few teenage girls himself.