I would suggest OKCupid or Meetup.com as places to be able to find someone online, meet them in person to hang out for a while and then decide to move forward.
If you live anywhere near Charlotte, NC - I have some friends that would be happy to meet you
Isn’t “playing the field” what they call this? I did this in college and met my “lovers” (if you must call them that) via mutual friends – at parties or bars. If you want an older set, then I’d move to the arts scene. Most towns hold fundraisers and benefits for various causes and they attract the age that the OP is looking for.
Does it occur to anyone else that there is a certain amount of danger/risk to one’s safety in becoming intimate with a man you do not have a “relationship” with?
Oh my God! Really? No fucking way! I never would have thought of such a thing if you hadn’t told me! Thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Wait a minute…are you saying that Shagnasty tried to suck you into a relationship last night? :eek: I’m terribly confused at the moment.