This thread got me thinking, trying to remember exactly who I might have engaged in such activity with. Right now I can think of three women: one is my ex-fiancée, one is a friend and the third was a random woman I met in a bar on my birthday a few years ago.[list=1][li]My ex: we never actually got all the way there, just to the head a few times and then only a few inches on one occasion. We were always lubed and most often, she would be astride me, controlling the pace. I don’t know if it was because she was tiny, ~5’1" or so, or just couldn’t relax, or whether she just didn’t like it, but we never got full entry or even short strokes. Interesting side note: it was the only time we would have sex without condoms, which was nice.[]My friend: we had gone to a Christmas party and had an altogether great time the night before. Being my normal randy self in the morning, we were spooning and after about twenty or so minutes of the playful stroking between her legs she adjusted and I slowly slid myself into her. She was very wet from the forplay and I wasn’t guiding, rather just pushing in slowly. Another twenty or so minutes of slow grinding sex and she looks over her shoulder at me with a smile and says “Well…that was deviant. If we ever do it that way again, I want to be on top.” I had no idea that I was taking her anally, so I don’t know what to tell you other than it felt great, but so had the sex the night before (both times, and also a few minutes later in the shower :D:eek::D) She told me she liked it on occasion, but reiterated that she liked to be on top, controlling things.[]Random girl: we met at my friends Irish pub and hit it off. We did the whole sexual pyramid: head, vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, vaginal intercourse, head. It was a true random hook-up and it was pure, raw sex. It was not the gentle, caring, slow and deliberate insertion of my ex or my friend, it was hard-core ass-pounding and she was thrusting back onto me as hard as I was into her. That was little different from regular vaginal sex, actually, except for the mental part, which was exciting. [/list=1]I think, for me, anal sex is exciting because it’s not something I get to do very often (hell, sex is exciting for that reason! 
) It’s also exciting because it requires a much different technique, a slower, more deliberate stroke. I totally agree with the women that keeping the hands busy is a great addition here, from reach-arounds to cupping the breasts to dancing my fingers across her lips and chin. Similar to regular rear-entry, light biting, kissing and sucking on the neck and ears helps, too. But I digress…[/li]
<phew, kinda hot in here>
As for myself, I’ve been rimmed once and have had two women insert a finger in my anus during oral. The rimming was exquisite. The first girl to use her finger on me got a lot of jumpiness as I never really relaxed. The second woman, well, it was pretty mind-blowing. I went out and bought a string of beads later that week. [sub]Haven’t gotten to use them yet, though.[/sub]
